Now my bf is broke. He has not had enough money to support himself. He used to have a great job but got fire and stay home for so long. I can't afford everything plus I don't want to pay often. Usually before he always paid but not already change. I don't want to call him a loser or what but back then I can't pay for every day we eat/drink. Beside that he loves me if i tell him go fishing to get fish for me he will do it. He cares for me the most. Should I leave him or not? If not what is the solution because I can't pay for both of us. I don't have money to support him.

Yes definitely ... Leave him so he can find a much better girlfriend than you. Have fun!

what kind of love this is??? He just lost his job and you already wanna leave him??? Do him a favor.... leave him so he can find a better gf than you....

Good points, but rape him and leave, so the find better gf. That how satttle the score

I think you should talk to him first. Tell him how you feel about the situation. Tell him you need help with the finances....that you can't do it alone. It sucks to lose a job, but if he's not out there looking, people are not going to come to him and offer jobs. When a person doesn't have a job, his or her job is to look for one. Get up every morning. Get dress and go to work looking for a job. Good luck!

best advise of the day....

She loves him. But she would love him much more if he has money.

No wonder there's a saying "No money, no honey".

Easy problem, just tell him to rob the bank to get money for you or shoot you!

You're so smart! This is much more efficient than fishing.

I just told my bf to go rob the bank for me. He laughed. lolz.

gold digger....if u can't handle it..leave...wtf of going online and ask such a stupid question..

BTW..if you want some honest answer...register...don't hide behind the screen...

Grow up...

oh yeah .. he's suzk .. dump him .. i'll bet there still a lot of sugar daddy for u to choose from .

What the hell? You people will do the same sh4t. Stop pretending.

He owns me mucho money ok. He owns me $900 and have not paid me yet. I can give it to him. I don't mind about that amount since I remember back then he paid for meals and holidays stuff. I stay with him for over 3 years ok. I don't cheat on him that is good about me. I don't get anything expensive from him while I have many rich guys after me. Now I don't love him like before. He uses my money and i have to pay every day we meet. I am a girl i can't support him because my salary is limited sh4t. Why aren't people understanding me? How can I support him? He uses my money right now. I hate people say I have a loser bf.

If you already make up ur mind...Wth are you coming up here and ask us...Since we didn't give u the answer like what you wanted....u got mad?...

U r the only one, who can have say in this situation...If there are many rich men are after you....dumb ur loser bf...and get those sugar daddies...

If you guys date 3 years already...$900 is nothing....man...

It is okie for you to stop being his gf. But never think that because he is out of work so that his dependence on you makes him less than a human being.

You can do whatever you want to do, but remember that when you're thinking that money is the most important factor in getting married - then - tell the next guy up front so that he have time to evaluate his pocket before signs off a long-term deal with you okie.

You're a typical girl who thinks $$$ is all and $$$ is more important than LOVE. love is not asking what the person can do for you but in reverse. Unlucky for any guy who become your bf in the future. When they're out of job, they will be treated like trashes no more no less.

I hate those girls like you!

When I were still w/ my ex bf, he was unemployeed for a long time, around 6 months. I was broke at the moment too (a full time student w/ a part-time job that paid minimum wage) but I didnt leave him a complain a word. I helped him w/ the gas and cell-fone bills only (cuz that was the bills he got to take care n that's all I could afford). We didnt go out but stay home and watch Tv or dvds.
As u've admitted, U dun love him anymore, that's y u posted this here complaining about him. It's ok to have an unemployeed bf (but he has to b willing to search 4 jobs) and support him within ur ability but if he continue to lay home doing nutting but asking u 4 money then u should leave him rite away.
By da way, he can apply for "tien that nghiep" at the times (i think the first 6 months) so he can take care of the bills.
I'm not gonna judge u "gold digger" or wuteva cuz I have no rite to. So you can either
1) Stay w/ him n support him emotionally/financially (if u could) if he's willing to search 4 new job now , or
2) leave him if he purposely depend on u financially cuz that is not a real man 4 u to be with.
Gl,
**Candie**

If U LeaVe HiM YeR The LoseR!

hi there,

How long is the relationship? Well, is he a gold dicker? I think you should tell him to go find a new job and also you're sick of paying for him every time.

Well...you musn't pay anymore because then he's gonna get into a pattern and soon start relying on you without even noticing it...you musn't let that happen..just check and remind him to get a job and don't hang out with him as much that way you don't have to pay..do this not only for your own good but for him too...I mean if he's really a true definitiion of a guy..he should feel weird a bout it already instead of letting it goin on...Don't spoil a guy too much..especially things that shouldn't be

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