[QUOTE=cochunho][QUOTE=tanman]

Tanman,
everybody (guys or girls) do have thier good and bad days. When you made an unexpected mistake, of course, you want to be forgiven. In this case this girl might be was drunk. And if she is sincerely asking for a forgiveness, why don't we just generate her one?
Remember you can't make a wise choice in choosing your ideal significant other because noone is perfect. People tend to do things depending on the moment. And it is not the same from moment to moment. Then how can you test a person? It is always easier to say than to do.
Another point is that very few people (may be none) can function normally when they are angry. Then depend on whatever present at the moment, people tend to act upon it to release thier anger. of course, cheating availability moment can lead peopel to cheat. Believe it or not, you would do it too. Remember never say never, okie.[/QUOTE]

Getting drunk and didn't remember a thing?? he he. Guys know all about the drunk stuff. Foul excuses. What kind of "sincerely asking for a forgiveness" would take place in this case? The only person is able to take her back is the poster. If his heart is bigger than his mind, he would. You girls should learn to understand men more to prevent your future trouble.

Don't use any excuses for cheating. If you can not control your anger and emotion that lead you to cheat to get back on your love one, you are not a mature one to get into love relationship nor marriage life. You're screw! There will be a lot of problems later in marriage if living this kind of person. No trust can be built. Doubt will come in. Trouble is easy to generate when darky days happen.

It's not only test your gf/bf, but also test yourself to see you can handle this kind of person in the long live of marriage.

"never say never" he he. I never do it when I had problem. It's a damn wrong thing to do.

[QUOTE=ruacontho]wait...y dont' you guys put yourself into her shoes to think???? what if she really got drunk for having fun w/ her girlfriends. just kissing nothing else right? why don't have give her another chance?? or atleast you both try to work it out. What if you hang out w/ ur guy friends and kiss another girl at the club?? what would you do then when she confront you??? Think about it twice if you can and still want a relationship w/ her. Best luck.[/QUOTE]

Just a little problem already lead her to this behavior, how can she handle bigger problem in life? We can say whatever we think here, but if the poster has a deep love for her, he might think about to fix her for the better.

"just kissing, nothing else"? you'd better learn to understand the animal called men.

Tanman,
IntegraGSR,
lafastlove,

It's really cool that you guys strongly agreed with me on this. Thanks bros. I just had to do what i had to do. [what a man must do]

---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Breaking up with her wasn't an easy thing to do. I had to do what I had to do and I think it was the right thing to do. It's not something that I am proud of or anything but it's best for two people becuase there's no way I want to be with after that incident. For the update, I just continue doing what i have been doing and I am doing ok. There's no business between me and her anymore. WE're DOne. The past is gone, the present is here and the future is waiting...

*cheers* everyone.

[QUOTE=DarkSkyCali]Tanman,
IntegraGSR,
lafastlove,

It's really cool that you guys strongly agreed with me on this. Thanks bros. I just had to do what i had to do. [what a man must do]

---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Breaking up with her wasn't an easy thing to do. I had to do what I had to do and I think it was the right thing to do. It's not something that I am proud of or anything but it's best for two people becuase there's no way I want to be with after that incident. For the update, I just continue doing what i have been doing and I am doing ok. There's no business between me and her anymore. WE're DOne. The past is gone, the present is here and the future is waiting...

*cheers* everyone.[/QUOTE]

lol don't be so insecure, not like you don't have a dick or anything. she just kissed him and might've possibly slept with him too. but as long as you can satisfy her you'll be alright lol

you can kiss someone else as well...simple solution huh! wait a minute i think the other much handsum than you lol

People make mistake and so does she.
Maybe you need to take a step back and look at the whole picture. Do you trust her when she said she will change and will not let that happen again? If so then give her a chance. If not then perhaps you two should move on and be friend.

all i have to say is your one stuipd guy, really stuipd?

you broke up with her because she kissed a guy? and u got hurt? its ladies night the probably got all hammer and f*** who knows she was so drunk and dont remember a think.

lets say you go to the club with your guy friend and you got so wasted and dont remember a think and woke the next day in bed with a different girl. you wouldn't tell your gf.

its GIRLS night as long she didnt sleep with that guy then fuk u cares