I met this guy in college and we have been dating for almost 8 months. there have been ups and downs in our relationship..but anywways.. we are on a one week break from school and he planned to visit his friends in another state. i was wondering if it's still too early in the relationship to think about going on vacation to with him? well, i kinda asked, but he said that it's expensive to rent hotel and he just wanted to visit his friend. i kinda wanna go with him because i have never been there before? Should i just let him have his own space a little by having him go on vacation to visit his friend? you see, he and i see each other EVERY DAY in class and after class. i think he needs space. before he goes on vacation, i asked him to drive with me to another state to visit my parents and check out that state for a few days before he visit his friend? he is ok with that..so is it totally ok for him to not want me to go to new york with him? 1. no place to stay..can't stay at his guy's friend who doesnt know me..2. if rent hotel, too expensive there..3..let him have his free space a little? 4. last break, he already stay back in town with me and didnt go back home or visit his friends already..5..so this time let him go on vacation himself..let him have some space??
i am just sad tat he didnt want me to go to new york with him..but if its ok for him to have space, then i guess so..any advice?