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Old 05-30-2006 , 05:47 PM     TueGiac est dconnect  search   Quote  
I have to think about it.

I don't know how to convince a guy to marry a girl if the guy feels he is not ready. He behaves the way you expected: first try to ignore the issue (eg. we talked about it later), then get mad when you keep pushing it, now he hides his head in the sand and say "Problem, please go away. It is painful."

I have thought about reverse psychology in this case, but I never try or see it work. It could work or end the relationship.

You should ask more experienced people to help you.

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Old 05-31-2006 , 09:32 PM     Jennifer2004 est dconnect  search   Quote  
Feel guilty, I feel you. Just call and say sorry but don't mention anything about marriage. The more you push the more you run him away. Don't make yourself a WRONG PERSON. Good luck!!!
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Old 05-31-2006 , 10:25 PM     warm-heart est dconnect  search   Quote  
i think you don't have to call to say sorry. he knew it .you have a season why you are upset. have you ask him why he does'nt want to getting marry?
maybe he have something hinding behind your back.
i have a gf she dated a guy 4yrs she getting pregnant he does'nt want to keeping the babe .want her to getting a bortion. later on she find down he is sponsor his wife and a kid in viet nam to come here.
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Old 06-01-2006 , 12:57 AM     jordant est dconnect  search   Quote  
who give a crap whos is calling who ,,, wait for next 6 months , if you can find someone better than him , dumb ur ex and go for it , if he can find other girl better than you he will dumb you and go for her , its real life .... let see whos faster and stronger ...
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Old 06-01-2006 , 09:49 AM     feelguilty est dconnect  search   Quote  
This Sunday is his birthday. I am thinking should I call him on that day to say Happy Birthday? He still hasn't called me...
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Old 10-26-2008 , 08:00 PM     EmBell est dconnect  search   Quote  
Hi Feelguilty,

With LOVE, I would let him go..

Fights about 'getting' married is a huge sign of incompatibility. If it has to be *this* disgruntled, then don't force it. It won't last.

Marry someone *more* compatible. Wish him luck and say, "I'm sorry if I was mean to you. You didn't deserve it. That fight was a sign that we are not good for each other."

I've seen it several times. If it's not working out now, it won't work in marriage. Sometimes, people are just better off as 'friends.' Sadly true.
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Old 10-27-2008 , 09:36 PM     bien vs NUI' est dconnect  search   Quote  

Why don't you say it out loud that you were so stupid huh ????
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Old 11-01-2008 , 05:04 AM     tanman est dconnect  search   Quote  
Quote :
Originally Posted by Miss Holly

Honestly, your boyfriend already told you he doesn't want to get married. You just weren't listening. Here's a rule of thumb. It's called the:


If one meets the RIGHT person at the RIGHT place, but the WRONG time, then most likely the RIGHT person becomes the WRONG person.

If one meets the WRONG person at the WRONG place, but the RIGHT time, there's a good chance the WRONG person becomes the RIGHT person.

TIMING is important. MATURITY & PATIENCE usually will outlast any OBSTACLES.

Why don't you give him some SPACE? A little distance? It might make the heart grow fonder. Just remember, when he does finally contact you, don't hammer too much questions at him, rather at the first open opportunity, see if you can apologize gracefully and let him know that you LOVE him and right now that it's all that matters.

After that, give him some more SPACE. This will help you evaluate if he's the ONE you want to spend the rest of your life with. The method has worked for me many times. Even with my fellow co-workers & employees. Giving them space, allowing them to make their decisions, makes people more productive. You shouldn't have to force anyone. They are NOT your children.

Good luck.

Miss Holly

Miss Holly,

Who is a "right person"? How do you know?
Where is a "right place"? How do you know?
When is a "right time"? How do you know?

Here are a few things I want to list.

right person: who can put up and be OK with your bad things.
right place: a place that both of them can not fuk such as: not in the hotel, not a vacation, not at home alone, etc...
right time: you will have right time if you have right person & right place, and enjoy the happy ending ...

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Old 11-19-2008 , 09:44 AM     Trai_Nam est dconnect  search   Quote  
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Hi all,
Me and my bf had a big fight about getting marriage. I was the one who did most of the talk with anger. He was just quiet and listen. That made me even more upset. Since I couldn't tell what he was thinking. I pointed out all his bad attitude, behavior, etc. He still kept silence. I asked him got to give me the answer, he said that he will call me when he has the answer for me. Then we hung up.

4 days have passed. He hasn't called yet. And when my upset is cool down. I am starting to feel guilty for what I said to him. Should I call him or just wait for his call?

He didn't say much because he was laughing silently at you when you were arguing with him. The bottom line is I don't think the word "marriage" is in his vocabulary!
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Old 08-27-2009 , 08:56 AM     TinhTran est dconnect  search   Quote  
wow! that is my story 5 year ago. Well! your bf quiet because he knows what's going but still make same mistake or his doesn't like one of your plan. but choose not to void his opinion because he believes it doesn't matter what he said. you still not listen nor do it anyway so quiet is virtue. Right now he doesn't call you because he still mad and confuse. Maybe ColdFeet too
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Old 04-19-2013 , 01:19 PM     mitzi est dconnect  search   Quote  
Did you ever apologize to him? Did he ever call you?
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Old 06-12-2016 , 12:59 AM     Raudang est dconnect  search   Quote  
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Originally Posted by feelguilty
Hi all,
Me and my bf had a big fight about getting marriage. I was the one who did most of the talk with anger. He was just quiet and listen. That made me even more upset. Since I couldn't tell what he was thinking. I pointed out all his bad attitude, behavior, etc. He still kept silence. I asked him got to give me the answer, he said that he will call me when he has the answer for me. Then we hung up.

4 days have passed. He hasn't called yet. And when my upset is cool down. I am starting to feel guilty for what I said to him. Should I call him or just wait for his call?
smart girl, một người thông minh không sợ phải làm bất cứ gì, bất cứ hoàn cảnh nào cũng có thể chấp nhận được miễn là cuối cùng có được những điều mình cần, mình muốn.
smart girl, hãy tự hỏi lòng mình là muốn hay không muốn. nếu là muốn thì chẳng có gì mà không làm nổi hay là không dám làm.
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