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Pitbull
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Old 01-23-2010 , 06:43 PM     Pitbull est dconnect  search   Quote  
it's will be the 2nd times to cheat on you if he has a chance to meet your cousin before you catch him. He might cheat on you more than what he has admited. A cheater will be a cheater. I'm a woman understand that feeling... also just broke up with my bf yesterday. He is the best guy I have ever met till I found out he got another woman beside me. He promised won't talk to her anymore, but again and again he's still cheating behind me... I cant' forgive a man like that even I love him the most compare to all of my exs... No one is perfect, but he doesnt' know how to make it right from wrong, then we shouldnt' feel regret to let him go...

Good luck to you sis...
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Old 02-04-2010 , 09:35 AM     hangxom09 est dconnect  search   Quote  
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Originally Posted by Christine_OC
I have cried for more than a day, and I am so sad now. I want to give him a second chance, but I don't know how I can trust him from now on. I am a pharmacist, and my husband is an engineer. He works only 40 hours per week, but I usually work 60 hours per week. We have been married for more than a year, and I love him so much. I have two jobs: a full-time job at Rite Aid and a part-time at the hospital. I only work at the hospital two nights per week because I want to pay off my student loan and save money to get ready for having a baby in about 4 months. I intend to hold two jobs for a year because I don't want to let my husband home alone. It's not because I don't trust him, but I think my husband does need me to be with him once a while at night. A week ago, my cousin talked to me and she advised me not to work at night in the hospital. I just said to her that I trust my husband. She then told me that she talked to my husband couple times in VF chat room. She also told me that my husband wanted to sleep with her. I didn't believe in what she said to me, but I wanted to to verify her story. I did not come to work last Friday even though I told my husband I work on that day. I, instead, stopped by my cousin's house and saw her conversations with my husband on the chat room. I could not think of him until I told my cousin to ask for his cell phone. I was shocked when he gave her his cell number. For almost a week, I think it's my fault because I am not around when he needs me, but I can't believe he have done this to me. Last night, I confronted and asked him whether he have been faithful to me for these days when I was not at home. He kept insisting he was a faithful husband. I told him that I saw his conversation with my cousin, and he then admitted that he has not been faithful to me. He also admitted that he has slept with a girl whom he met online 3 months ago. He asked for my forgiveness. I still love him, and I am pregnant now.

couple questions on this story

if this is a real, very very sorry for that sadness

1, but the thing is you went to the cousin home and had online conversation with him, when the man demands having sex with a girl online, they must chat or phone eachother before going to that part (engineer guy know well about that). so when your cousin asked his cell # and he gave her, (it's confusing here) men know that, if not exchange the fone, sex wont happen,,,,but if it happened like you mentioned? it could be playing ..

2, both married more than a year without kid, engineer and pharmcist . both income combine and (what do you think)?
no need part time job here, its no reason to work 2 two (confusing here too) no man let their fresh wife working like that (maybe .0001 %) happen

3. he admitted that he slept with a girl online 3 months ago ... cheater never admitt that unless you have evidence like u have cousin or he must be something wrong guy (not engineer)
men77
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Old 04-12-2010 , 02:20 AM     men77 est dconnect  search   Quote  
i know its an old thread...but prenangt women should help her men to release "that"...maybe you're tired from work and you might not need *** but it doesnt mean that men (husband) does'nt need it too
Sowhoat32
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Old 08-12-2015 , 06:32 PM     Sowhoat32 est dconnect  search   Quote  
Freeloader, are you crazy???

I think you should forgive him. At least he told you he cheated with some girl 3 months ago. He didn't have to admit to that. It means he wanted to be honest with you and to restart with a clean slate. Fool me once, shame on him. Fool me twice, shame on me. If he cheats again, then let him go. Everyone deserves a second chance. And stop working so much. Why get married to spend time working?
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Old 08-29-2015 , 04:38 PM     bantinh est dconnect  search   Quote  
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Originally Posted by Sowhoat32
Freeloader, are you crazy???

I think you should forgive him. At least he told you he cheated with some girl 3 months ago. He didn't have to admit to that. It means he wanted to be honest with you and to restart with a clean slate. Fool me once, shame on him. Fool me twice, shame on me. If he cheats again, then let him go. Everyone deserves a second chance. And stop working so much. Why get married to spend time working?
I know this post is way old. What is end result for this story?

Sowhoat32, I know we make mistakes in life. We are human beings. Part of life.

But why would she forgive him? Are you kidding guy?

Just imagine your significant other having intercourse with some one else. Then letting you know about it. I can ASSURE you will NOT forgive her man.

I can not even think of another guys peter inside my woman. The ULTIMATE BETRAYAL!!!


dancing.rain
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Old 12-25-2015 , 01:40 AM     dancing.rain est dconnect  search   Quote  
First priority is to make sure the pregnancy results in a healthy baby so quit your nighttime job, instead, concentrate on feeling well mentally and physically. If I had to do things over while pregnant, I would have taken loads of yoga classes or medication classes.

So priority is a healthy baby, then a healthy mom. If your marriage does not work out, life will be ok. A cheater will always be a cheater. Can you live with that? If so, make up your mind and stick with your plan to stay married, if not, file for divorce AFTER giving birth. No need to do anything stressful at this time.
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