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Oakland
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Old 07-18-2006 , 12:53 PM     Oakland est dconnect  search   Quote  
Originally Posted by Oakland
i believe an occasional visit to strip clubs with your boys is fine, but anything beyond that is questionable!!!



Is this any different than "Bia o^m", "Cafe o^m" in VN?
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i think a little o^m here and there, and a little mo` here and there is okay; chi? ddu*ng` co' ngu? nhao la` dduo.c ro^i`.
*DomDo'm*
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Old 07-18-2006 , 07:26 PM     *DomDo'm* est dconnect  search   Quote  
A man who knows how to take good care of me will not have time for other women. :-) There's a big difference between a man with family morals, and those who don't.

Money can buy the greatest sex from a prostitute. But it takes alot more than money to earn the satisfaction and respect from your family. When you have the satisfaction and respect from within, you'll never need anything from without.
pinkee
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Old 07-18-2006 , 10:10 PM     pinkee est dconnect  search   Quote  
when i become a parent, i will do my best to set examples for my children. i hope my future husband will do the same.
VKieucotien
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Old 07-19-2006 , 01:41 PM     VKieucotien est dconnect  search   Quote  
it seems to be morally acceptable by society; but what about for married men ? hahahhaa
morally accepted by society???? lolzz what an idiot????30sumthing how about change to 13 something
u are talking like a lil kid.
have sex w/ prositute and bring aids back to ur wife and family that is okay in today society???? WOW
Do u eat rice or eat dog shiet? sound like shiet coming out of ur mouth lil boi. what an idiot?
Did ur parent teach u all this??? i hope u dont teach this back to ur children.

lolzzz monkey see monkey do


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HoangLien
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Old 07-19-2006 , 03:32 PM     HoangLien est dconnect  search   Quote  
Nothing harsh, but I would divorce my man if he does that. Doesn't matter how much care you put into your family, the intimacy between husband and wife is not something to be share with other people.

I pity your wife, and I hope that you will not fall into the situation where your wife divorce you or your family fall apart b/c of your menopause.
HoangLien
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Old 07-21-2006 , 11:52 AM     HoangLien est dconnect  search   Quote  
Finity's comment is quite selfish. If it is all about pleasuring yourself, then it is not a relationship anymore.
SmallStone
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Old 07-21-2006 , 01:52 PM     SmallStone est dconnect  search   Quote  
it is wrong. Try to stay away those unhealthy fun games.

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Tiger_W
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Old 07-21-2006 , 02:07 PM     Tiger_W est dconnect  search   Quote  
Quote :
Originally Posted by SmallStone
it is wrong. Try to stay away those unhealthy fun games.

SS

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dan ong ra ngoai xa dao chut' xiu' ma` em cu' la loi' om xom` a`
VKieucotien
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Old 07-24-2006 , 08:07 AM     VKieucotien est dconnect  search   Quote  
YEAH, use ur money to get high class hookers, so impressive.
lolz so classy guy . ur daughter would be so proud if only she knew dad is in the high class society club. Can't get any so u ve to pay for them, lolz
just becareful dont go to VN coffee shop in lil saigon and hit on those hot
coffee girls w/ ur big money. ban. trai da^n cho*i no' bang bang on command. lolzz dialing...boytoy....ring ring...anh o*i than`g cho' do' no' bop' dit' em.....rui` no' no' noi' dit' em thui' do'......
.WHATT??? THAN`G NAO`....after 15 mins some commotion then 6 shots rang out inside the coffee shop....lolzzz wat a bunch of stupid Viet..
the girl who initiated the call was 25 years to life, boi shooter jail 4life..LIFER...
careless111
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Old 08-14-2006 , 02:21 PM     careless111 est dconnect  search   Quote  
thats way too far. how can u accept something like that? if a married man goes to strip bars ...has lap dances ..can be considered cheating. sleeping w escort girls are way too much. how can he considered to be good husband and father when he's sleeping around w other people like that. not only one or two times ... but regularly. thats not a good marriage and not a healthy lifestyle. if he loves u and ur kids then he shouldnt cheat on u. if he thinks thats ok ..then ask him if he's ok if u sleep around w other men.
doll515
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Old 12-18-2006 , 07:11 PM     doll515 est dconnect  search   Quote  
u PIG!!!!!

Please don't do that to ur wife..no women deserves that!!!! i feel soo bad for her....she is soooo unlucky....if u decide to do that.

P.S...money means nothing...i think she would rather have a poor husband than a rich one that is a horney pig...
gowgates
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Old 12-20-2006 , 06:21 PM     gowgates est dconnect  search   Quote  
So isn't the bottom line:

If he ain't getting it at home, he's gonna get it from somewhere else?

Is this supposed to be a message to ALL women?!

So is it better because there is NO "emotional" attachment like a "bo nhi"?

Uhm, things to think about eh?

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Old 12-24-2006 , 08:20 PM     scarborough est dconnect  search   Quote  
you dont need an opinion, you are looking for support
HunnyBunny
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Old 12-24-2006 , 10:23 PM     HunnyBunny est dconnect  search   Quote  
Quote :
Originally Posted by thirtysome
What do you think of married guys who are occasionally having encounters with escort girls ? Many of my successful friends are doing this and think there's nothing wrong with it if they still can provide a good life for their wife and kids. I know this is morally wrong, but most married guys I know think this is fine, as long as you can afford it, keep it discreet within yourself (just like having masturbation) and just don't get too addicted. Going to strip bars, having lapdances or nude massages, having sex with escort girls are the normal hobbies of alot of unmarried guys (including me when I was unmarried) and it seems to be morally acceptable by society; but what about for married men ?

Personally, I have not thought about this for 8 years since I got married; but lately, I have changed my views. A successful man who's financially successful, on top of that, can have some fun encounters with beautiful women (paid or non-paid) as long as his number one priority in life is still his wife and family.

Girls: please share your opinion on this. If your husband has taken extremely good care of the family (financially well-off and raise the children well), does he deserve to have some erotic fun with his friends like having lapdances, nude messages, sex with high-class escorts etc.. ? How far is too far ? Would he be forgiven if you found out he has some encounters with some high-class escorts ( and yet your sex life with him is still good and he doesn't think of anyone else when he has sex with you) ? I need some affirmations from people before deciding on my own.

- D.
If my husband can provide.. financially well-off for his wife and children... and he wants to experience sex with high/low class escorts out side of our marriage...

*I would let him.. but only if I no longer love him... then our marriage would be about the kids, keeping the business up.. but completely LOVELESS. *Ong an cha, ba an nem* Cause u can not truely say you love a person with all ur heart and passion.... knowing this.

I do know happily married couples who practice what you said. Perhaps my views will change with time... I am currently 26, married.. first year.

Bunny

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DL2001
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Old 12-25-2006 , 05:17 PM     DL2001 est dconnect  search   Quote  
Quote :
Originally Posted by thirtysome
What do you think of married guys who are occasionally having encounters with escort girls ? Many of my successful friends are doing this and think there's nothing wrong with it if they still can provide a good life for their wife and kids. I know this is morally wrong, but most married guys I know think this is fine, as long as you can afford it, keep it discreet within yourself (just like having masturbation) and just don't get too addicted. Going to strip bars, having lapdances or nude massages, having sex with escort girls are the normal hobbies of alot of unmarried guys (including me when I was unmarried) and it seems to be morally acceptable by society; but what about for married men ?

Personally, I have not thought about this for 8 years since I got married; but lately, I have changed my views. A successful man who's financially successful, on top of that, can have some fun encounters with beautiful women (paid or non-paid) as long as his number one priority in life is still his wife and family.

Girls: please share your opinion on this. If your husband has taken extremely good care of the family (financially well-off and raise the children well), does he deserve to have some erotic fun with his friends like having lapdances, nude messages, sex with high-class escorts etc.. ? How far is too far ? Would he be forgiven if you found out he has some encounters with some high-class escorts ( and yet your sex life with him is still good and he doesn't think of anyone else when he has sex with you) ? I need some affirmations from people before deciding on my own.

- D.





Let me reverse the scenerio and you answer my questions. What ever you answer and however you feel, your wife will probably feel the same.

Let say both of you are very successful and are financially stable. What if she has everything in her married life with you, but she wants something more and so she goes out with her girlfriends to Chip and Dale and private parties in which sexy and good looking men who would "dance" with her without your knowledge or presence? How would you feel your wife is with different men without your knowledge? How would you feel these men are having sex and enjoying a good time with your wife?
negativefcf
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Old 12-27-2006 , 09:33 AM     negativefcf est dconnect  search   Quote  
Go for it. You have my greenlight.
donsongxanh
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Old 12-27-2006 , 10:27 AM     donsongxanh est dconnect  search   Quote  
Em buon qua' di ngay` le^~ ma` cho^ng` bo? nha` di choi roi em ca^n` nguoi` ta^m su*. .Cam' o*n nhieu`
kewlii
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Old 12-28-2006 , 02:44 AM     kewlii est dconnect  search   Quote  
To me, i think after a certain period of time a marriage becomes more of a partnership. the caring and tenderness are still there, but i am not so sure about the love; the feelings that one used to have at the very beginning of the relationship; the burning sensation at the early stage of the relationship. Your spouse becomes more of a companion, and less of a lover. you know what I mean? So I would still love my wife, but more as a good/best friend instead as a lover. So the norm is that one can only have sexual relationhip with only one lover, and now his wife is more of a best friend than a lover,then he's entitled to have sex with another individual.
But this doesn't mean we can or should tell our spouse about what we're going to do. Why?? simply because human is a greedy creature. We like to own and claim what ours. We don't like to share our possessions; Yet, if my spouse being share DISCREETLY without affecting MY life, then honestly I don't mind at all. Having said all these, have I been with an escort before? the answer is NO, not YET
CuChiDatThep
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Old 01-11-2007 , 10:27 PM     CuChiDatThep est dconnect  search   Quote  
vay em co the tam su voi anh khong?

Quote :
Originally Posted by donsongxanh
Em buon qua' di ngay` le^~ ma` cho^ng` bo? nha` di choi roi em ca^n` nguoi` ta^m su*. .Cam' o*n nhieu`
YenNhiPA
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Old 01-18-2007 , 06:07 PM     YenNhiPA est dconnect  search   Quote  
no wife will accept that, if she truthly love her man.... and if the husband love his wife, and she want that too, will he say that is FINE with me by mouth or by heart, maybe none of the above....
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