Vivian just found out my boyfriend cheated on me while he was on vacation in vn. My heart was torned when i saw those pictures of him and that girl..He did apologized to me and he said it was just a fling no string attached and asked for a second chance but i said no cause i know i can't never forgive him for what he had done. I was strong for first couple days when he called i refused not to answer his calls, but now that he doesn't call i started missing him so much. I called him yesterday just wanted to tell him that i want to give us another chance since we were so happy together, we never had any serious fights.....i just want to tell him that but he didn't picked up his phone..I don't know what to do anymore....I really love him....

let me tell you the true , 1000 tha(ng` ddan` o^ng , ve vietnam la` ddu~ 1000 tha(ng` co' flirt , have fun cho du` dda~ co' gf , troi` sanh men ra la` va^Y. ddo' , take it or o*~ gia' suo^t' ddo*i` ...

about your problem , keep and try to contact him , he maybe busy with work or study or something , keep trying dear .... otherwise move on .....

Like what jordant said, try to contact him otherwise move on

I feel sorry for you :(

I just don't understand why he has been ignoring my calls?? what could be the reasons? He doesn't love me anymore?? Deep down inside i know he still loves me, but why he doesn't call me back??? i think i'm going crazy...........

Don't just think women only play hard to get..Men too..

Take your time, let him chill a little on his ends, if he still loves you, he'll call, if not, better to move on than feeling bad. just remember he's the cheater not YOU ok..

If he really love you, he will call you after a few days. Otherwise you should move on and let him go. What ever happen, stay clear and don't do anything stuppid.

how do you know his 'deep down inside'?
the gao he found in vn must be more youthful and attractive than you.
Anyway, don't bother, leave him alone for a month or so (after all the 'flings' have boiled down) to see if he calls and begs for your forgiveness then you'd think whether you'll give him another chance.
Hope that everything will finally work out fine for you.

-- i want to give us another chance since we were so happy together--



You "were" happy together. That was in the past. I would "never" take him back if I were you. If you give him another chance and he cheats again, you can only blame yourself for being not so smart.

Btw, you can't live without him and get back together, please be careful, he might has some kind of communicable disease.

you know whats men hate the most about you girl , try to control over him , can't do that , can't do this etc.... even is he stay with you one day he will leave you for good because there is no way men can live like that ...

Thanks all for your serious advices..i don't know why i still love him so much even after what he had done to me.....

Glorious: i'm not trying to be mean or anything but the girl he took pictures with was not attractive at all. I'd really don't know what he see in that girl?

Chac co le~ he thay mat mat(ashame of himself)cho nen khong giam nhin vivian nua, might it be the reason???

Jordant: I was NEVER try to controlled him...besides he even said that he feels very comfortable around me compare to all his exes. I was never stop him from doing anything he wants, that's why i let him went back to vn by himself, and this is what i get for not being controlling???

Vivian101,

Well if i were u i will never get him back, as u c.. when a guy is truely love u, no matter where he goes he always think about u, take his times to call u and ask where r u right now?, how are u? or did u eat anything yet? he doesnt has time for another girl.
Well, but if u really love him and u think u can't live w/o him then call him give him another chance, but if u think u could move on then move on... ( go hang out with ur friends, shopping...that is what i alway do when i got mad at my b/f.. lol ).. just find something to do to kill time..Cuz as u c.. like some ppl said " a cheater is always a cheater".

One more thing...( this is for u and for everyone) and this is what i think...
Love can be very confusion cuz when u date a person .. even thur u r happy with he/her but still u dunno is that person love u for real or not...

alrite.. no matter wat is ur decision .. GOOD LUCK with it..

luv- justme

How many times we have told you young girls? Do not let your bf/finacee go back to VN alone to have fun. Let him go only if it's strictly business or family related and check on him regularly. You need to tatoo this statement on your forehead

Btw, there are several reasons why he hasn't reponded you 1) He's so confident and play hard to get to make you call first so he has a reason to come back 2) He's an impatient guy and doesn't love you much so he doesn't care 3) He's playing with the other girl in VN now to fill his time to wait and see how hard you will react. In any of these case, drop him. He's not worth it and not a type of guy who's deeply in love with you as you are with him. Also he's not the type of guy who know the seriousness of mistakes like this. He should have at least beg/call/email you like crazy for 2-3 months... to show he really repents for his unfaithfulness.

i really do understand how u feel now...'ve been there done that... SO, my advice to you is just leave him along... do ur own thing... hang out with friends... dating whatever... just be happy... at least try to be happy... then what happen will happen. He still loves you, he will find a way to win ur heart back... he deosn't care 4 u, 4get it... move on... i know it's easy to say but listen" everything will be ok, it's not the end of the world" good luck

Have you guys had any intimacy since he came back? If yes, you might wanna go check yourself for diseases. Don't wanna scare you but better be in the known than sorry later.

MeN aRe DoGs

Thank you for all your supports and wise advices..
I've been waiting and waiting for him to call and yet he still hasn't called. I really want to call him rightnow but i'm afraid he mights ignoring my call again...

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If a man makes mistake then turns his back on you, then he definitely doesn't love you anymore. The more you try to hold on or call him, the more he will feel superior and he won't appreciate it. He already moved on, you should too. If he wanted to work things out with you, he would have been on his knees begging for forgiveness (after he did what he did), let alone ignoring your calls.

Move on to save your dignity! Don't call him anymore. Maybe when you stop chasing him, he'll be crawling back.

Khang.

maybe he wanted you to see those pictures so you can break up the relationship so that he can continue on with that girl in vn.
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