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angelina
Junior Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Số Điểm: 159 |
09-18-2005
, 10:18 PM
Good Morning Vietfun Members!
I don't think anyone is awake yet since it's only 1:05 am. I just found out that my ex is with a new girl. I hope he's happy with her and not just using her for sex. I don't understand why it's only been a week since our break-up that he has find someone new. As for Angelina, I'm still recovering from the pain. More than a year of dating, We do things like going to movies,hang out with friends, studying or shopping. I cherished every minute,seconds,and hours that we spend together but unfortunately,it didn't turn out the way i expect it to be.He has promised Angelina that he will wait whenever I'm ready but somehow,he brought it up so suddenly. I can't go to sleep at all because I'm very upset and heartbroken. I don't know what I do wrong to deserve this. Is being in a relationship without making love is hard to lasts?. We hang out with the same school freinds and I heard he and his new gf spend alot of time together. Everytime,his friends called him he always said he's over his new gf house. Angelina still care for him alot but what should I do? please tell me brothers and sisters of Vietfun. |
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Kenster
Platinum Member Join Date: Dec 2004 Số Điểm: 7280 |
09-18-2005
, 10:28 PM
Hi Angelina, I'm sorry to hear about the pain you are going through. I believe that all guys can have a long-term relationship without having to force or keep bringing up the issue about sex after the couple have discussed about it like you have. If he truely loves you, he will wait for you until you are ready. As long as that special girl loves him and is there for him than that is all he would ask for. Sure sex is tempting, but the person who truely care for you will be able to control himself. Hope you feel better soon
 Edit: (Sorry, I had to revise my writing a few times so please re-read.) Last edited by Kenster; 09-18-2005 at 10:37 PM.. |
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angelina
Junior Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Số Điểm: 159 |
09-18-2005
, 10:43 PM
Thanks Kenster
I don't know why I cannot go to sleep tonight but I tried to make myself fall sleep because I have school and work to do. Angelina cannot concentrate on anything other than my break up. How can a guy be so cruel like that? I never thought someone I'm with more than a year would do something like this to me. I have never done anything wrong in the relationship. I was there for him when he needed me. I don't feel like doing anything so I just go to school and work and after come home, I wouldn't even go out with my friends.I feel too embrassed to even go out. Thanks again,Dear |
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Kenster
Platinum Member Join Date: Dec 2004 Số Điểm: 7280 |
09-18-2005
, 10:49 PM
Well, he has lost a wonderful girl. Just going to school and work is something he should have admire in his girlfriend. Just move on, its his lost not yours.
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NguoiSua
Junior Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Số Điểm: 6 |
09-18-2005
, 11:19 PM
I don't know about the rest, but sex means nothing in true love. Comming from a guy, if that's the major thing in any relationship then it's doomed.
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suytuveem
Junior Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Số Điểm: 13 |
09-18-2005
, 11:21 PM
hi
 i hope u will feel better soon...kebuidoi  |
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topdawg
Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2003 Số Điểm: 58 |
09-19-2005
, 12:45 AM
Sex is very important in a relationship. Most break up due to the lack of sex, or dissatisfaction from sex.
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Thathoc
Banned Join Date: May 2002 Số Điểm: 4865 |
09-19-2005
, 03:14 AM
Angelina, thathoc biet' Angelina buồn và tức cho chính bẩn thân của Anglina lắm, tại sao bạn trai đối xư vói mình như vậy ? Thathoc không đồng ý cái ý nghĩ bạn trai của Angelina, trong thời gian tìm hiểu với nhau cần phải có sex rồi relationship mới last long đươc hay sao ? Sex là một màu nhiệm ..... Why you have to worry for your boyfriend right now ? Leave him alone , someday he will come back and ask ...again .... Tin thathoc đi . Thôi đi ngũ nha, ngày mai còn nhiều việc cần phải làm nụa .
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OmE0tay
Junior Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Số Điểm: 4 |
09-19-2005
, 10:01 AM
SEX is dirty. I think you are right when you broke up with him.
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Escape
Loyal Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Số Điểm: 1688 |
09-19-2005
, 10:11 AM
move on sis...he is not worth it........Good luck with everything
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MR_UGLY
Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Số Điểm: 120 |
12-20-2005
, 11:07 PM
Anglina...maybe you should try casual sex to get rid of your pain.
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LittleMonkey
Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Số Điểm: 63 |
12-20-2005
, 11:15 PM
i feel sex more important to guys than girls. they should have some kind of machine.... that is why i don't feel secure about guys. when they are not satisfied sex, they leave us.... what the con heo
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Ngoc Huyen
Junior Member Join Date: Dec 2005 Số Điểm: 23 |
12-21-2005
, 01:11 AM
Hello sis !
Sorry to hear your story, i myself is not much better than you yes, alot of guys are just like yours boyfriend,one thing i know when a guy move on so quickly right after a break up 1- he's not love you that much 2- he loves you but want to forget you 3- he wants to show you hey  i can get any girl i want i don't need you.in your case i think your B/F does not love you as much as you think he is, i know it's hurt but be strong sis, find something to do to keep you busy so you don't think much about him ,hope you feel better soon  |
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boxy123
Junior Member Join Date: Dec 2005 Số Điểm: 12 |
12-21-2005
, 10:58 AM
Excuse my language but... in a relationship, it has to have lust in it. As for him, i think he doesn't mind about having sex w/ you unless you are ready to. BUT, there must be something that you as his partner can do/help him to ease his desirer.... a bj is out of a question!!!!
just a thought... |
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HandyMan
Junior Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Số Điểm: 7 |
01-11-2006
, 03:33 AM
he moved on why you have to be a slow learner. Find someone new who knows you can find someone better.
or not, keep looking learn from your past relationship. |
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EmHanTinhAnh
Junior Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Số Điểm: 133 |
05-13-2007
, 05:40 PM
You haven't done anything wrong.....ur ex doesn't deserve you.....Don't bother to find out about his new girl and him......move on..focus on school.....and one day you will meet a man that respect you.......
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Ai Mai
Junior Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Số Điểm: 5 |
06-23-2007
, 10:28 AM
I agree with guest_guest, you are still lucky ! he wil forget you after sex. i think real love can overcome sexual desire (?!)
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ThuyDung.Ng
Junior Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Số Điểm: 4 |
04-18-2008
, 11:41 PM
Quote :
Thiệt là buồn khi đọc đc chuyện của sis. Em hiểu cảm giác của sis vì em cũng đang trong tình cảnh đó. Biết bao nhiêu kỉ niệm giờ đã tan biến hết. Mặc dù đó chỉ là kỉ niệm nhưng em cũng sẽ ko thể quên được. Khi mới bắt đầu yêu, tự nhủ lòng mình rằng đừng có yêu thiệt lòng quá, để đến khi sau này ko dứt ra đc, nhưng cuộc sống chẳng biết đc điều gì sẽ xảy ra, yêu và yêu. Đến hôm nay thì đã kết thúc. Sao cảm thấy trống trải. Mong sis và em sẽ nhanh vượt qua chuyện này. Good luck |
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jdstyle121
Junior Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Số Điểm: 5 |
07-18-2008
, 02:17 AM
Hi angelina,
Wow, your story almost the same as mine, I just broke up with my ex-gf like two months ago and two weeks later I found out she has a new guy, I was really sad and couldn't sleep either, it's really hard for anyone that going thru this, even though we broke up because of me, I've been busy with my life and rarely had time for her. It's reality that we have to face, you have to be strong and take care of yourself, and don't think too much because it doesn't matter how much you think it's not gonna change anything...just like I do...I know we wondering why so quick that they found a new one, it's not that, it's when someone comes along, eventually you will find a new one and take away your pain and you'll be happy again k...take care and be strong...how's crazy, we're going thru the samething and I have school and work too...stay strong k keep yourself busy and go out with your friends and meet new people...  |
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EmBell
Junior Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Số Điểm: 34 |
10-26-2008
, 07:48 PM
Hi Em Angie,
Tell little birdie bye-bye.. He already moved on. If he couldn't hold out (b/c you didn't give him want he wanted- assuming body, sex- then good for you girly!!) It ONLY speaks volumes about how much the relationship meant to him. Sometimes, things are not vice-versa. Mutuality, girl- look for someone who feels the same. Let doggy run (poo) wherever he pleases. Patience. Mr. Right will come along.. |
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