Before I attempt to express my point of view, I would like to remind the reader that Iamsomad starts the thread by saying “I caught my husband looking at naked girls pictures on line.” My input in this post is limited to this expression and not beyond as some of the writings have aimed or shifted to the core of pornography and charged that somehow looking becomes addicted.

My lady holds an extreme viewpoint, about looking at nude photograph such as those in Playboy magazine, and the two of us have debated extensively on this topic for me to understand the flaw in her thinking which I think I can identify with some of the thinking in here. She thinks that when a guy intentionally looking at a naked girl, he will then fantasized about that girl and in turn hold that girl image in mind when he is with the gf. That, to her is consciously cheating, and to me, it is a fault presumption! Speaking from my personally point of view, I do not have any girls image in my mind other than my girl! Yes, I may look at Playboy or some naked pictures to appreciate the beauty of creation, but these images fade away soon after viewing them. I think it’s just human nature that we are drawn into the beauty of our body, but there is a portion of the population happens to use and exploit this form of beauty in an indecent way. In marriage, I think Iamsomad should understand or at least should have a good talk with her husband about this issue to avoid further conflict that could ruin the marriage.

Question for those that thought it's normal to view naked pics of women: Is it ok for the husband to relieve himself in front of those pics?

You're being immature for kicking him out of the house just for looking at pornos. C'mon sis...he's a man not your little boy.

To Tuan,
Theo Pds Nghi Neu Pds Sau Bat Gap Ong Xa Coi Hinh Sex Lam Mot Minh Chac Cung Khong Sao Vi Tren Doi Nay Minh Chi La Con Nguoi Khong Ai La Thanh' Nhan Het
Neu Ma Mot Nguoi Di Tu Lam Bay Ba Mot Minh Cai Do Tuyet Doi Khong Chap Nhan Con Neu Dan Ong Thuong Hoac Dan Ong Co Gia Dinh Cai Ddo La Binh Thuong. Vay Mai Mot Neu Tuan Co Vo . Neu Mai Mot Tuan Co Gia Dinh
Neu Tuan Khong Thoa~ Man Chuyen Sex Cho Vo*. Tuan Chon Co Ta Lam Mot Minh Hay La De Co Ta Tim Su Thoa~
Man O Nguoi Dan Ong Khac???????

Real men like looking at naked girls........ dau co' gi la big deal dau. Ngo' thui ma`. However, before you kick him out... you should look at yourself first. ....... may be you are overweight and not hot any more, so he has to find it elsewhere. If not, that's normal for the guys...

Tui con` keu ong xa tui di ra ngoai choi di, mien khong dem binh hoan gi ve, play protective nu*a~. Cho mi' ong di bot, de minh` co' chu't space do' ma`.... zi ma no' con khong di cho tui nho nu*a~.

Thang chong khong thich nhin dan ba`, no' nhin dan ong la met nua

Good luck!

Huh???????????????? ALL MEN DO THAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Have you ever watch PORN with your husband? If you guys don't do that, then there is something wrong!!!....

Honestly, since we just had a new born and can't have sex at this movement, my wife is very COOL about it. Like i said, i watch PORNO every night before bed and every morning before i leave the house. Often times, i see some HOT beautiful naked porno and started to jack off all over my wife's face, belly and differnet parts of her body at different times. Well it might sound silly, but it is true when you get married.

i c nothing wrong with it. I let my honey watch porno and naked women posters/pics. At least he is not cheating on me...

Tuan_:
relieving himself watching porn or whatever is fine with me...I too do that from time to time...it is just getting rid of frustrations..nothing of it...even if he went to the whore house it is fine also...or even one night stands...it is just lust..as long as he doesnt bring diseases home or end up having affairs...

Nice story................

You question is very a good one. It is not a serious problem about looking at porn or watch porn, but it can influence the way that a man acts as he gets addicted to those images.

But your action was too much. Don't you know that all men are like that? Just that some know how to control their desires and know how to manage their urges successfully.

Take him back and tell him that you don't like this particular behavior. Treat him nicely and .. especially you're must be as you said - pretty wife for him. If you husband is full, he will never feel "hurry"

NGTH:
hehehehe....keep looking...as for me might have to find him a 2nd wife....as I can't keep up with his demands....
the problem is he watches porn and mags and then go find me to relieve his frustrations....he says that is my job why the heck does he have to relieve himself by hand when he has a wife...

Why don't you show him your naked pictures.

haha. sori to say.. but this is the most hilarious post ive ever came across! haha.

if guys have stoped checking out other chicks, its a WORRY!
1. he had turned gay
2. he has probably lost interest in u too babe!

dont work urself up too much.

Nhung anh na`o khong ddong y' thi` tu*. ddac ca^u ho?i neu vo*. mi`nh xem hi`nh nhung nguoi dda`n ong khac se cam gia'c nhu the^' na`o......men and women are the same....

However, cung nen tha thu va khuyen him....em la first :-). Neu anh ma cu*' tiep tuc nhieu nhu vay thi em cho anh ngu ngoai dduong luon :-)..... ho^`i ddo' minh cung nghi okie, nhung tu*` khi xem Dr. Phil ong ta no'i it's not okie ....no excuse.

can i ask what kind of triple X rated do he look at white or asian? If you said you look beautiful i don't belive you show the pic of you and the one your husband look at to see which one more beautiful ok let say the naked chick is ugly and first and compare with your real pics to see who look more pretty

Ok, nói cho you biết. Tui cũng là đàn ông, tui thiệt lòng mà không bênh vực cho ai cả. Trời sanh ra cái máu của họ là như vậy rồi, miễn là họ không có ngoại tình mèo mỡ gà đồng là được. Cứ để tự nhiên, càng cấm họ dàng tò mò thì mình càng khổ thêm chứ chẳng lợi ích gì, có thêm còn đi đến đổ vỡ hạnh phúc nữa là khác. Bồ của tui không có cấm tui xem hình nake pics, nó còn cho tui collection để dành sưu tầm...... Mình được thoải mái thì đâu có cần và mình còn nghĩ là nó rất là cao thượng và phải phục và thương iêu nó nhiều hơn. Hãy tha thứ và đem anh ta về nhà đi, you làm hơi qúa đáng lắm đó. Chẳng có gì big deal đâu! Suy nghĩ thật nhiều nhé và đừng làm như vậy nữa, nếu anh ta muốn xem thì cứ để cho anh ta xem rồi hắn sẽ chán dần chán mòn.... You phải làm thế nào để anh ta nhìn mình hấp dẫn hơn những tấm nake pics kia. Trang điểm lên, nên mặc đồ khêu gợi 1 chút khi chỉ có 2 người thôi, 1 không gian lãng mạn sẽ làm cho anh ta đắm đuối và say mê mình nhiều hơn. Tha thứ nhiều rồi mình sẽ thấy vui và hạnh phúc hơn.

common lady, calm down. let me tell u my story. in 1993 frank sanatra's daughter pose for playboy i bought that issue my wife was fine wit that. we even discuss abut the model. and if u r not curious y ur husband did that then u should not kick him out of the house. but if u do, i suggest u go out grab a video and watch it urself u will ove ur husband twice as much good luk to the both of u

Many married couple are watching X rated movie together, even let their husband keep playboy magazines in the house.
Be open mind about it, aren't we are adult here.If he does not like look at naked women, he is not normal.Women have all shapes and sizes, let's him have a little bit of imagination so he can give you some fun.

BJ time to make up!