VietFun For All - Is it good to keep Virgin Until Marriage ?

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11-24-2005 , 10:46 PM gate est d�connect�

Vietfuners,

Could you please give your answer about my question i wrote above ? Debate good and bad, please. Thank you

Sincerely Yours,
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11-24-2005 , 10:50 PM gate est d�connect�

Hi Vietfuners,

I 'd like to answer honestly. I can't believe that we can keep our virgin until mariage in this day. I dated some girls, all of them devoted for me just a one week or after 2 weeks dating. However, when i get married, i only wanna get married with a virgin one.

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11-24-2005 , 11:00 PM cafe est d�connect�

who the hell on earth have time to debate on such a dumb topic u posted GATE???

if u can stop doing a hand job then yeah u then maybe save the virgin till gettin married.
cafe

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11-24-2005 , 11:01 PM Vietoc714 est d�connect�

The answer is yes.

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11-24-2005 , 11:02 PM gate est d�connect�

I see most of girls ask for materials and short-sighted view.

When flirting a girl, u only need to talk sweet and pretend u as a good person. Sooner and later, she will fall for u at once.

It is hard to find out a stable mind girl being moral and faithful in heart. Hard and hard :(

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Quote :

Originally Posted by gate

I see most of girls ask for materials and short-sighted view.

When flirt a girl, u only need to talk sweet and pretend u as a new good person. Sooner and later, she will fall for u at once.

It is hard to find out a stable mind girl being moral and faithful in heart. Hard and hard :(

If you "pretend" to be someone whom you're not...

Yeah, you have already answered your own questions.

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11-24-2005 , 11:06 PM gate est d�connect�

Cafe brother,

How to keep hands resting off all the time when horniess appearning ? But, anyway i still accept as a virgin even he does hand job everyday

. Girls is no.

Vietoc714,

It is very hard to keep if she is my lover

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11-24-2005 , 11:08 PM gate est d�connect�

Vietoc714

I see there is no true love for this day. Before love, Tie^`n and status is being viewed. is it right, girls ?

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11-24-2005 , 11:10 PM Vietoc714 est d�connect�

Quote :

Originally Posted by gate

Cafe brother,

How to keep hands resting off all the time when horniess appearning ? But, anyway i still accept as a virgin even he does hand job everyday

. Girls is no.

Vietoc714,

It is very hard to keep if she is my lover

Then try it harder to keep your little bro in the cage. Why you want to marry a virgin when you're not able to be one yourself? In your case, don't ask and look for virgin girls and then you don't have to pretend to be anyone. Be yourself and you will get what you want.

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11-24-2005 , 11:13 PM gate est d�connect�

Vietoc714,

Although i am no longer virgin, but i still want i am a first and last person to my wife. Am i selfish ?

Actually, i see it is very easy to test girls in this day . Sorry, i only say the truth

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11-24-2005 , 11:15 PM Vietoc714 est d�connect�

Quote :

Originally Posted by gate

Vietoc714

I see there is no true love for this day. Before love is Tie^`n and status. is it right, girls ?

Well, depend whom you are dealing with. Not all girls are for money or social status.

But most of them go for the person who is able to give them comfort and protection. And only those two issues you mentioned are the obvious attributes of these successful men.

However, they mostly admit that later on in their marriage life, the personality of the husband is more important than $ and his social status.

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11-24-2005 , 11:18 PM Vietoc714 est d�connect�

Quote :

Originally Posted by gate

You're only testing those girls who are not well educated and teached by their parents.

Good girls and those have the great personality to be your loyal wife... never let you "test" them till you are officially their husband period.

Girls are sensitive about this issue unlike us as men.

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11-24-2005 , 11:24 PM gate est d�connect�

Vietoc714,

The two things we mentioned is the key things to help a family being happy. However, all of girls want it in the firslt side, it means that girls are very short-sighted and let " dream partner " scored and being kicked. The reason " Dream guy " kicked is he found out that he is deserve better one.

I, myself, think that the first thing girls should calculate is Moral then knowledgeable. Education is able to get anytime u want.

I expereinced some girls, i can lead a conclusion that girls are very fabulous and innocent in love. All of them have a blindly heart and greedy eyes.

Cafe brother,

when was that last time u pull urself dude??? <=== Just a fews mintues recently

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11-24-2005 , 11:30 PM Vietoc714 est d�connect�

Quote :

Originally Posted by sd06

Girls now use tampon, so there is no virgin left. Stupid question deserves stupid answer.

Well, I don't think so. Gate posted a very good question. I think that guys need to learn how to stay virgin till marriage.

I don't think that tampon has anything to do with a girl's virgin at all. But having sex is counted.

And to me, virgin is a state of being loyal to you at the time of knowing you, not going back to her past. It is true that girls who never have sexual activities are still better, but no one is perfect.

Physical intact of hymen means nothing but only proves her first time, but her heart and mind for you and only you - will surely the most valuable thing of her.

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11-24-2005 , 11:31 PM gate est d�connect�

viettoc714,

I don't think educated girls have good personality and wanna keep virgin until marriage . I, myself, think that most of them deflowered when they were in highschool .

I, myself, met a dental girl. I met her when she was in the first year in Uni and i also met some universitian females as well, most of them are cruelly liars.

This day, the strict family girls are easy to lie in bed with guys without having any committment, so the chance to find a girl keep pure is depend on " Lucky "

sd06,

Touching by tampon is not matter

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11-24-2005 , 11:36 PM gate est d�connect�

Vietoc714,

yes, Hymen is nothing to men. Because there is nothing to determine a girl is good or bad, therefore our ancestors have suggested a general regulation to value a girl is by her hymen. The hymen here is a good evidence to value for good faithful girl.

When hymen is worn out, it means that the heart changes.

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11-24-2005 , 11:38 PM Vietoc714 est d�connect�

Quote :

Originally Posted by gate

Moral can only be trained by going to school or being teached by someone who has the knowledge.

Education is not solely about going to college and earn a college degree. You don't have to be college student to learn how to behave in life. You can learn it by being with someone who is morally superior than you. His/her influence to you is also called education - in my opinion.

How can you make a bias conclusion based on "experienced some girls" and you are able to think "all of them" are such and such? think about it again.

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11-24-2005 , 11:42 PM Vietoc714 est d�connect�

Quote :

Originally Posted by gate

Vietoc714,

yes, Hymen is nothing to men. Because there is nothing to determine a girl is good or bad, therefore our ancestor suggested a value for a girl by her hymen. The hymen here is a good evidence to value the faithful for a girl.

When hymen is worn out, it means that the heart changes.

Well, I have no idea man! You're entitled to your opinions. I need to take a break now.

Good topic Gate! have a good time!

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11-24-2005 , 11:45 PM gate est d�connect�

Vietoc714,

I don't prejudge any genders, but i do believe that Education at school will not absolutely bring the virtous for a person. The vrtue is taught or trained from family and religous organisations.

I see alot ( almost ) educated girls around me slept around with boyfriends while schooling. I don't dare to value them, but i only wanna share what i have seen around me.

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11-24-2005 , 11:47 PM gate est d�connect�

Vietoc714,

Take a rest

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