We're been together about 2 years. We have alot of fun and happy together. He treating nice to me, taking care good of me. Both of us are still in college and working partime jobs.
But the problem is my mom she doesn't like American. She wants me marry to Vietnamese guy. She said:" American is not good, not kind of person and not faithful ... etc." I explained by too many ways. I feel sorry anytime my boyfriend said " Good-bye to her" , she didn't even looks at his face. I feel bad when my mom treats him that way. My boyfriend know my mom don't like him but he still taking me go to visit her every weekend.
How can I do? I really want marry to this guy no matter how, but I also want my mom understand to me. I love my mom so much and I don't want disappoint to her. I don't knw what is she thinking? How is diff between American and Asian. Anyway, please gime me some advises or some ways to talk to my mom.
I really appreciate any advises

ur mom is a typical asian mom,,,, u cant really change the way she views... however its ur life, not ur mom's life... i dont understand why the HECK u want to get married so early for??? u dont even know how different between asian and american???? that is totally dumb of u!!!
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[QUOTE=Tara Tif]We're been together about 2 years. We have alot of fun and happy together. He treating nice to me, taking care good of me. Both of us are still in college and working partime jobs.
But the problem is my mom she doesn't like American. She wants me marry to Vietnamese guy. She said:" American is not good, not kind of person and not faithful ... etc." I explained by too many ways. I feel sorry anytime my boyfriend said " Good-bye to her" , she didn't even looks at his face. I feel bad when my mom treats him that way. My boyfriend know my mom don't like him but he still taking me go to visit her every weekend.
How can I do? I really want marry to this guy no matter how, but I also want my mom understand to me. I love my mom so much and I don't want disappoint to her. I don't knw what is she thinking? How is diff between American and Asian. Anyway, please gime me some advises or some ways to talk to my mom.
I really appreciate any advises[/QUOTE

Tara Tif,

I think that total strangers are the best people to tell you whether you should marry someone or not. Thank you for giving us a chance to give us an uninformed opinion.

tell mommy you're worthless and no vietnamese guy would care to marry you. that'll convince her.

I would and I am vietnamese too.

yes, marry to the American guy for you. Try to marry 3-4 guys in your lifetime. Have fun. Grab any guy that is floating by.

Well, my sister dated a white guy. Soon, she found out that he has 3 children with another Viet girl. His kids age range from 7 month - 6 yrs old. My sister found out about this after he got my sister pregnant. The white guy acted all nice and crap, but he really was not. So, I really dislike white guy dating viet girls, especially those very traditional vietnamese girls.

The father of my nephew has never been in his child life. Well, my nephew is now 5 yrs old without a dad. I can see that my nephew wonders at time to why he doesn't have a father. My sister (his mother) doesn't know how to explain it to her son about it if he ask.

ta về ta tắm ao ta người ơi ........

ai ăn nước mắm hiệu 3 con cua hông

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My opinion: You can't really, totally understand white people. One night, they sleep with you, tomorrow they kill you for insurance. It happened all over. Don't get me wrong, white peoples are good also, but why take the sure thing:

Ta về ta tắm ao ta
dù trong dù đục , ao nhà cũng không có cá tra .

White guy is nicer (nicer ).
that's all i have to say

My friend was with all these white guy, cux she dun like asian guy that much, some guy are good for a week are so, then soon they dun care about u, they go out and sleep whit other white gurl, I dun know the guy u are dateing are good are not but by the way u say it he seem like a nice guy. but to me I dun think that white guy will be like asian guy, to me I like to dates viet guy becux they undersatand me more and it better for us to talk, white guy there are some stuff to tell them are even cook *_^ but if u like him then just be with him who know he might be a good guy, good luck gurl *_^

hi,

believe it or not ?
"cá không ăn muối cá ươn, con cải cha mẹ trăm đường con hư " ...

best regards,

there are bad white guys, there are bad black guys, and there are also bad yellow guys, it doesn't matter who they are, people cannot judge of there skin color or the bad experience of white, black, or yellow. there are a lot of good and bad people out there. You just have to go what you believe in and do the right thing. Good luck.

nice one philosophy. wait till you both have a career I mean no schooling anymore and stable job then thinking about marriage.

damn it money is everything remember

One thing to remember is that she's your Mother. If you truly love this guy and that you know everything about him and his family (at least have met them), you should try to come up with a plan to approach your mother.

One advice to give is that try not to run away and do whatever you want and hurt your Mother. You will regret later.

Ask her specifically why she does not like him other his skin color. Explain to her that there are Vietnamese guys who are jerks and just want to get into your pants only and nothing more. You just have to be patience.

Nuoc chay dda mon.

Tara, where the fack you learn how to write? B1tch if you can't write in english, try Viet next time.

You're over 18 and you don't need VF to make decision for you.

you are stupid rejected shT, marry to a white trash.

I hate ppl who's into interracial marriage. it never work asshole. only whore did these thing. fcking mat goc.

your life will be in hell. stupid kid, dumn ass

i hope you'll get banned