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HuongHoa
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Số Điểm: 919 		Old 03-10-2006 , 11:09 AM     HuongHoa est dconnect  search   Quote  
Hello Tiff,

You can try:

1. Show your mom that other Vietnamese females are married to the white, and they live in happiness in your area, community or etc.
2. Explain to her although he's not Vietnamese, but he cares and treats you nice as much as some of Vietnamese males do, or even nicer than the Vietnamese.
3. Most Vietnamese males expect their wives to cook and do housework, then they call that's a happy family, and American, most of them are not expecting that, and they don't care as much as Vietnamese do.
4. You can teach him speaking a little in Vietnamese to communicate with your mom.
5. Tell her that you are happy to be with him, and hope she will accept him.
6. Oh, of course, you should get married after your graduation.

I see many Vietnamese women in my area are married to the whites, or other races, they live very happy and have cute children. I support your decision, in hope, your mom will support you as well.

Goodluck,
HH
4everS
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The reason you're intestested in this while dude because he has a bigger di.ck and definetely he'll satified your desirer. You should listen to your mom, idiot.
dulang
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Ask your mom, would she prefer to see you happy with a husband who love, and respect you and her or an Asian who don't give a damp how she feel. There are many good a bad people in every race. Your mom see one or two not good American than thinking your future husband will be bad. Ask her, how American people would think about Asian who came to this country and kill other or cheat on tax? If everyone have the same thinking like her, we would not be here in the first place.

Give her time. Ask her to give your boy friend a chance to show his good side, also give you two a chance to finish that college degee to prove to her that are love and support each other. She will chance her mind. Asian man do cheat too you know and many have second and third wife as well.
Anathema
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Số Điểm: 1064 		Old 03-10-2006 , 12:26 PM     Anathema est dconnect  search   Quote  
Quote :
Originally Posted by Khixanhau
My opinion: You can't really, totally understand white people. One night, they sleep with you, tomorrow they kill you for insurance. It happened all over. Don't get me wrong, white peoples are good also, but why take the sure thing:

Ta về ta tắm ao ta
dù trong dù đục , ao nhà cũng không có cá tra .
Yes, you are exactly right. Vietnamese people are the best. They don't have any prejudice and of course when they do, they are right to be prejudicial. They are great people who are honest, faithful, and least of all, un-hypocritical. Of course, after the war they do just about anything for a chance of asylum in the US. They even buy and sell children who are half Vietnamese and half American like livestock to get a chance to enter US soil on the claim that they are are part Americans because the child they just acquire like a pig or a chicken is half-white. Of course, once we are here, Americans are no good. They are this, they are that, they don't have emotions like Vietnamese, they are not faithful, etc. and etc.

Vietnameses men never cheat. They go back to Vietnam but that is only to help their poor countrymen and has nothing to do with the fact that the dollars from the Americans they so despise as beneath them go a long way in helping them acquire the most beautiful of Vietnamese girls for pleasure weeks at a time. We all know Americans are bad and a horrible race. Look at the way we cheat their welfare and medicare system to know how horrible they are. Yes, Vietnameses are the best. No doubt about that. Our best traits are that we don't judge, are always thankful, and never, never are we hypocrites.

No, don't ever marry any other race except Vietnamese. Unlike men of other races, you can trust your husband or boyfriend to go back to Viet Nam on mission of pure humanitarian nature. Who can compare to a Vietnamese man who, once married, is loyal and yet find the time to go back to Saigon to help all the poor Vietnameses left behind. Be proud and shame on you for even thinking of going against your Vietnamese mother in entertaining the thought of marrying the one you love. And God forbids if this guy is not a Catholic. Look out then.

A.
LinhXa
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Originally Posted by Anathema
Yes, you are exactly right. Vietnamese people are the best. They don't have any prejudice and of course when they do, they are right to be prejudicial. They are great people who are honest, faithful, and least of all, un-hypocritical. Of course, after the war they do just about anything for a chance of asylum in the US. They even buy and sell children who are half Vietnamese and half American like livestock to get a chance to enter US soil on the claim that they are are part Americans because the child they just acquire like a pig or a chicken is half-white. Of course, once we are here, Americans are no good. They are this, they are that, they don't have emotions like Vietnamese, they are not faithful, etc. and etc.

Vietnameses men never cheat. They go back to Vietnam but that is only to help their poor countrymen and has nothing to do with the fact that the dollars from the Americans they so despise as beneath them go a long way in helping them acquire the most beautiful of Vietnamese girls for pleasure weeks at a time. We all know Americans are bad and a horrible race. Look at the way we cheat their welfare and medicare system to know how horrible they are. Yes, Vietnameses are the best. No doubt about that. Our best traits are that we don't judge, are always thankful, and never, never are we hypocrites.

No, don't ever marry any other race except Vietnamese. Unlike men of other races, you can trust your husband or boyfriend to go back to Viet Nam on mission of pure humanitarian nature. Who can compare to a Vietnamese man who, once married, is loyal and yet find the time to go back to Saigon to help all the poor Vietnameses left behind. Be proud and shame on you for even thinking of going against your Vietnamese mother in entertaining the thought of marrying the one you love. And God forbids if this guy is not a Catholic. Look out then.

A.
shut the hell up!!!! if you had something to say...spit the sh!t out. your sacrastic remarks were uncall for..
oralexa
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Vietnames guy is no good, white guy is suck black guy is sucker....Monk is an option
JohnR
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Anathema,
ThaychuaCali
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Quote :
Originally Posted by oralexa
Vietnames guy is no good, white guy is suck black guy is sucker....Monk is an option

I am the monk .
ddddd
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Tara tif why dont you go to the white people web site and ask for their opion and if you dating a white guy dont come to a viet web site to ask thats dumb of you and tara tif you sound like a bitter b itch
RichCarr
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Số Điểm: 289 		Old 03-10-2006 , 03:36 PM     RichCarr est dconnect  search   Quote  
Tara, you'll need to know more about marriage concepts, especially between yours and his, how to manage the after-marriage budget, ... White people might have totally different opinion about those, i.e., you might think that the wife'd keep and manage the money, they don't, you might think "messing" around is cheating, he might think that's just a social activities, ... food favorite is another example, he might like vietnamese food, but when hitting on the "fish sauce" he might look down on it and make you feel uneasy in front of your family and other vietnamese friends, etc.. Good Luck.
Advice4Me
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Typical Asian moms, and being rude to him will not make him go away. If you love the guy, try and find some neutral grounds with her. I know you love your mom, but her wants and needs will not always be the same with you, and it is your life, she will just have to accept your decision, whether she approves or not, she should need to accept.
Fun4All
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My advice is to finish school first. From the look of your English you need to hit the books more instead
T_and_V
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viet english nhu em lam sao ma tam su de hieu thau dao chong my trang tuong lai cua em? Anh khong chong ma cung chang ung ho em, nhung ma co mot dieu anh khuyen em la hoc xong di thanh cong da cu tiep tuc quen va tim hieu nguoi em yeu dung gioi han de sau nay khoi hoi han, khi da co cong an viec lam va truong thanh roi thi quyet dinh cua em ai ma ngan can??????? Mommy em ma thay em chung chac roi thi ba ta cung khong can em dau. chuc em luon biet suy nghi moi van de sau sac hon.
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Anathema
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Số Điểm: 1064 		Old 03-10-2006 , 06:27 PM     Anathema est dconnect  search   Quote  
"shut the hell up!!!! if you had something to say...spit the sh!t out. your sacrastic remarks were uncall for.."


LinhXa,
does this remark mean that whenever you say something you spit out fececes from your mouth? And if the saying "you are what you eat is true" you spitting sh!t out says a lot about your disgusting diet. Whatever the case, I seem to have struck a nerve somehow. Now, people who are straight never fear sarcasms or truths of any kind. Is it possible that you take my sarcasms so personally because things you try to hide even from your own conscience are now brought to light? I mean, a great Vietnamese like you should have nothing to be upset about. All my praises are true and I wasn't being sarcastic, just restating well-known facts. Of course none of these facts apply to anyone in particular, they are not absolute but merely relative, especially you. You are above all of that. Why get so mad about something that is not true? And what is the "uncall for" in my postings? If I am wrong, please correct me. Making mistakes and being corrected is a process of learning so teach me instead of getting upset about comments that never approach someone like you with such pristine virtues.

A.
C-xu-lanh
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Quote :
Originally Posted by HuongHoa

1. Show your mom that other Vietnamese females are married to the white, and they live in happiness in your area, community or etc.
HH
Where? I want to see it personally too. Up here, I see too many interracial couples who ended up divorcing or are struggling with their marriages/relationships. I'm not saying there isn't one happy interracial marriage. It's just I haven't seen one yet.


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Originally Posted by fobio-01
anathema;

regardless, you are still the hotest chick in Vietfun based on Fobio's opinion, you don't know how aroused I am whenever I read your words.................
I don't know....I think Anathema is a white guy
C-xu-lanh
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Quote :
Originally Posted by Anathema
Yes, you are exactly right. Vietnamese people are the best. They don't have any prejudice and of course when they do, they are right to be prejudicial. They are great people who are honest, faithful, and least of all, un-hypocritical. Of course, after the war they do just about anything for a chance of asylum in the US. They even buy and sell children who are half Vietnamese and half American like livestock to get a chance to enter US soil on the claim that they are are part Americans because the child they just acquire like a pig or a chicken is half-white. Of course, once we are here, Americans are no good. They are this, they are that, they don't have emotions like Vietnamese, they are not faithful, etc. and etc.

Vietnameses men never cheat. They go back to Vietnam but that is only to help their poor countrymen and has nothing to do with the fact that the dollars from the Americans they so despise as beneath them go a long way in helping them acquire the most beautiful of Vietnamese girls for pleasure weeks at a time. We all know Americans are bad and a horrible race. Look at the way we cheat their welfare and medicare system to know how horrible they are. Yes, Vietnameses are the best. No doubt about that. Our best traits are that we don't judge, are always thankful, and never, never are we hypocrites.

No, don't ever marry any other race except Vietnamese. Unlike men of other races, you can trust your husband or boyfriend to go back to Viet Nam on mission of pure humanitarian nature. Who can compare to a Vietnamese man who, once married, is loyal and yet find the time to go back to Saigon to help all the poor Vietnameses left behind. Be proud and shame on you for even thinking of going against your Vietnamese mother in entertaining the thought of marrying the one you love. And God forbids if this guy is not a Catholic. Look out then.

A.
Anathema, I don't think making a sweep generalization to counter another is a good way to get your point acrossed. At best, you just sound like one of them.
Anathema
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Số Điểm: 1064 		Old 03-11-2006 , 04:02 AM     Anathema est dconnect  search   Quote  
Anathema, either you are:
1. dumped by a Vietnamese man,
2. Fecked by some White men and still dreaming about them, or
3. No sex for a very long time,


KhiXaNhau,
you are proof that I am right. It is strange how Viet guys always praise girls who are virtuous and vestal in speech, but never in deed. If a Viet girl is too westernized, speak English too good, too comfortable with her own identity and self-esteem, then she is no longer a true Viet and has lost her "root". And when she speaks her mind then apparently she hasn't had "sex for a very long time". Great assumption.

But on the lighter side of thing if you have never lost your virginity, how would you know what lack of sex does or doesn't do? And as for number 2, why would you assume that? Doesn't that mean that for some odd reason you assume if a girl has been with a White guy, she no longer will want to be with a Viet guy? It seems you are saying that no Viet guys can ever compete with a White guy, especially not in relation to carnal knowldege? It seems here you went even further than I did in your conclusion that White guys are better, since if a Vietnamese girl had ever been with one, she will continue to dream about him. I guess you better hope no Vietnamese girls you know ever know a white guy, otherwise pure Vietnamese bloodline might decrease dramatically with the next generation.
A.
Khixanhau
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Anathema,
My niece went to UCSF to become a doctor, met and loved a white guy. She took him home. My uncle said no. My uncle was a former General before, he is not a dumb ass to see their future together. Not about white people, all about different culture. You can’t find happiness together…… She went on to marry him. A year later , he dumped her for a Philippina and said my niece was no longer sexy, what type of human is he? She is now 37 Pharmacist and so afraid of men. My uncle still love her.

My aunt married to an American soldier and came here before 75. All of her friends were the same, married to American people. What happen to them now?, their lives are like sh***. shi*,shi*, shi*, old and lonely. I knew them all. They all wish they could marry to Vietnamese man before but too late now.

I don’t care who you are. But the way you thought about our generations is wrong. If you are Vietnamese, shame on you. Again, not about people. It’s about culture. The way they are and the way we are. Dont' ever write things like that again in public, you will be in trouble.
Last edited by Khixanhau; 03-11-2006 at 05:14 AM..
Anna
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Số Điểm: 1407 		Old 03-11-2006 , 05:32 AM     Anna est dconnect  search   Quote  
their are good and bad people in every culture and nationality... every culture there's a cheating b*tch/dog .. not just white or tan or black skin colour people ....



i see few female viet doc married to white skin doc. and white skin doc married to viet ordinary girl, what are we to call them ???


we should stop assuming a person marrying someone diff culture to them are less lower than us ..... grow up people !!!!!


we can only thought in our head, is always best to date/marry someone same culture as you
didong
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world war III?
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