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toughlove
Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Số Điểm: 182 |
07-12-2007
, 06:03 PM
hey people do stupid things,,,, were all make bad decision in our live ,,,,we learned from it and hopefully dont make same mistake twice... give her another chance.... love is to forgive and to forget....
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DustEater
Platinum Member Join Date: Apr 2001 Số Điểm: 7921 |
07-12-2007
, 09:02 PM
This god damn thread is more than a year old....
Either they divorced or unhappily married after.... Give it a rest... |
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bunny153
Junior Member Join Date: May 2007 Số Điểm: 9 |
07-12-2007
, 09:30 PM
Noway why would you forgiven her anyway !... `5yrs off marrying she's throw away liked that with you closed friend off 7yrs... I'm a marries woman also cheating it not exceptable regarless that she's can't not helping herself for that moment with your boyfriend 'that's decasting thought for both of them " No matter what other views has said ". I do belived in faith and truthloves , If your wife don't loved your friend but still having afair with him "would you imagine what happened if she actuall loving him , she woulnd't telling you at all "will be her secret forever . The only limit to our realisation of tomorrow will be our doubts of today.Ler us move forward with strong and active faith . Goodluck that's my point of view you've to do what's your really think would make your life easy and happier bro ! Tinh yeu xe khong con la tinh yeu neu nhu trong long minh co mot vet thuong long khong sao gio xo duoc , Chuc gap duoc nhieu Hanh Phuc ve sao ........
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ForEmOnLy
Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Số Điểm: 113 |
07-28-2007
, 05:52 AM
Hey Bunny153!
I don't know the whole story why she tell you she cheated on you. Usually, people who cheated will never tell unless they get caugh. Let get to the point, I'm a man myself and I'm getting marry soon. But if I find out my wifee cheated on me, I will either berry her six feet under the ground or make her dissapear from my life for good. You cannt forgive and forget this because this will haunt you for the rest of your life. You need to find why she telling you is true and what is her intention. Do you have a lot of money or something? Make them both take the lying detctive test. You know what, justy dump her ass. Move to vietnam, get marry to 2 girls at the sametime  then all this is gone like Elvis. |
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DucNguyen2
Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Số Điểm: 10 |
07-28-2007
, 06:29 AM
motdoikhodau's advice is sound
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Ngu?
Junior Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Số Điểm: 39 |
07-30-2007
, 04:20 PM
Em sẽ tha thứ cho nguoi chồng của em nếu em biết anh ta cheating như là bao nguoi dan bà viet khác củng sẻ sẳn sàng làm như vậy
Dan ong có thể duoc tha thứ khi sa ngã còn đàn bà thuong thì khong nhưng em khong muốn so sánh ở đây em có thể tha thứ cho chồng vì em tin dù chồng em có quan hệ ngàn lần với ai khác đi nửa, em vẩn là nguoi anh ấy YÊU, là bạn đời tri kỹ cũa anh ấy, Em tin dù anh ấy có chọn lựa lại nghìn lần thì anh ấy củng sẻ chọn em mà thôi. Bao nhiêu đó đủ cho em chấp nhận rồi. chúa đả tạo nên con người với sự yếu đuối dù muốn hay không SEX còn là một vấn đề sinh học rất bình thường Em không expect ai tha thứ cho em nếu như em là vợ anh, vì em phải chấp nhận hậu quả của việc làm của mình dù là chị đả bị cám dỗ. Sòng phẳng mà nói, chị đả cho anh nhửng ngày tháng xuân thì, cùng trãi qua gian nan cuoc sống, Dan ong thì muốn lấy vơ lúc nào không đươc? càng già càng dể lấy vợ trẻ (có lẻ vì già thì giàu hơn) chị là người mất tất cả khi anh chia tay vậy thì anh nên vui đi, in the long term anh là một kẻ chiến thang, nổi đau hiên tai (khi noi' chia tay) chỉ là cơn đau của người cay nghiện: vặt vã nhưng đúng đắn Chúa ơi, sao người tạo ra chi cái thứ cám dổ nhục dục ấy? Sao loài người phải chịu yếu đuối? không có lổi lầm nào giống lổi lầm nào hết người ta hùa nhau lên án lổi lầm có phải để tự nhắc họ tránh xa lổi lầm hay không? Thân phận nguoi phụ nử trong thời đại nào củng đáng tội cả, |
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titi2
Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Số Điểm: 266 |
07-30-2007
, 05:16 PM
I felt for you my friend John. It is not easy! I am hopeful she was making things up to get your attention. Can you give her a chance and then find out the real truth behind it?
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redspirit
Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Số Điểm: 4 |
03-23-2008
, 04:01 PM
after reading all these cheating stories and about life, now i dont want to get married anymore!!
anyways, i think you should forgive her! =( |
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starrfishes
Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Số Điểm: 28 |
03-27-2008
, 03:42 PM
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phoe
Junior Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Số Điểm: 31 |
05-21-2008
, 08:25 PM
She cheated on you 2x in 5 years with your friend. Here's the problem: she broke your trust. You, on the other hand, a man, for all those years with her, cheated on her? NO? Wow, you should marry me. You are definitely a wonderful man: loyal, honest, and devoted to your wife. She told you the truth, that doesn't mean she should be forgiven. However, it does mean that she was overwhelmed with guilt. She cried? she begged you back? Wow, that means that she still loves you and want you to help her. If you were to be with her in the future, you will need to watch her. I'll forgive her, but I will warn her not to make a sucker out of you. You can only be pushed once not over and over again like a doorknob. You can forgive her. I know you can.
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ca_phao
Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Số Điểm: 390 |
05-28-2008
, 02:54 PM
If she gave you tons of good excuses that what?? You might forgive her but will you forget?? Will you family be the same or you both will live in hell together? Talking is so easy but if you are in his shoes then it is not easy to do, like forgive her or start over like nothing happened. If he did not fulfill what she needed then why did not she file divorce and go looking for better one who could satisfy her? dont tell me that she did not intend to cheat her husband, dont say "em lo*~ dai". Everyone does thing by their own choices
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Deathesy
Registered User Join Date: Feb 2004 Số Điểm: 953 |
08-12-2008
, 03:53 AM
its true, cheating seems to be normal in this day and age esp. amongst white people, just their culture. have you watched the moment of truth?
but anyhow, id make her my slave for one year before accepting her again. |
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xiudon
Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Số Điểm: 168 |
08-28-2008
, 05:09 PM
Forgive her, at least she was honest with you. But remember when you come back to live with her, can you clean up your mind about what she had done to you? or whenever you and her have problems, you keep mention about her past? That means you encourage her to cheat you again, then she will for sure. I have been through to your situation already, you should take my lesson.
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xiudon
Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Số Điểm: 168 |
08-28-2008
, 05:14 PM
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Don't get marry. I am serious. Just be bf and gf your relationship last longer. If the case happen like this you don't feel hurt bcuz you can say bye to your gf easy nothing bond between your relationship. Sometimes after that you can have a new one, new look, new experience, new fun.... |
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TinhTran
Member Join Date: May 2000 Số Điểm: 230 |
08-27-2009
, 08:30 AM
Wow! very hard. I think you have to go with your feeling and common knowledge buddy. You know her more than us. If I am in your position, I would forgive her and figure out a way to forget the whole story. Maybe go crew with his wife to even up. hard decision buddy.
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tuibidien
Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Số Điểm: 1 |
08-27-2009
, 07:42 PM
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noname
Platinum Member Join Date: Apr 2001 Số Điểm: 5497 |
08-28-2009
, 10:01 AM
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email
Member Join Date: Jan 2005 Số Điểm: 427 |
02-17-2010
, 12:05 PM
Make her little sister of legal age pregnant as payback. Or have sex with someone of legal age in her family (older sister, aunt, cousin, etc.).
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Diemngoc45
Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Số Điểm: 24 |
03-23-2010
, 08:26 AM
Diem nghi la mot nguoi vi` cho`ng minh hong satify minh du la di kiem trai thi` het sai`
neu chi one time thi con lo lam con dang nay two time thi hong the tha thu...vi theo DN thay thi da so thi ngua se quen duong cu, chi con 1 pha`n tram la hong nen neu John tha thu thi` goodluck nhung ma mot nguoi vo se cung minh trai qua ca cuoc doi lan bay gio minh con khoe manh ma con doi voi minh vay thi khi minh xa co benh tat thi chac ho con hong mau di kiem trai khac dan ba` ma coi sex quan trong hon ca ti`nh cam thi` dan ba do se hong cu`ng minh trai qua quan nan trong suot cuoc doi dau..smac du la tinh cam bao gom sex nhung phai ly tri sex va tinh nghia nao moi la quan trong hon .sang con tuoi cung tre hay move on for good ...its sad to hear that be smart to make the decisionLast edited by Diemngoc45; 03-23-2010 at 08:49 AM.. |
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TiengBiet
Junior Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Số Điểm: 36 |
03-25-2010
, 03:51 AM
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You should stop seeing your friend because he not only seduced your wife but also lied to you(he sound very malicious). On the other hand, let your wife realized that she cannot live without you and give her another chance for her to make up for it. |
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