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SadLady111
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06-06-2006
, 08:03 PM
Now my bf is broke. He has not had enough money to support himself. He used to have a great job but got fire and stay home for so long. I can't afford everything plus I don't want to pay often. Usually before he always paid but not already change. I don't want to call him a loser or what but back then I can't pay for every day we eat/drink. Beside that he loves me if i tell him go fishing to get fish for me he will do it. He cares for me the most. Should I leave him or not? If not what is the solution because I can't pay for both of us. I don't have money to support him.
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ttrinav
Gold Member Join Date: May 2006 Số Điểm: 2675 |
06-06-2006
, 08:22 PM
Yes definitely ... Leave him so he can find a much better girlfriend than you. Have fun!
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oh_anh
Junior Member Join Date: May 2006 Số Điểm: 4 |
06-06-2006
, 08:29 PM
what kind of love this is??? He just lost his job and you already wanna leave him??? Do him a favor.... leave him so he can find a better gf than you....
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If_Only
Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2003 Số Điểm: 607 |
06-06-2006
, 08:36 PM
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gold digger....if u can't handle it..leave...wtf of going online and ask such a stupid question.. BTW..if you want some honest answer...register...don't hide behind the screen... Grow up... |
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sugarplum
Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2002 Số Điểm: 603 |
06-06-2006
, 08:43 PM
oh yeah .. he's suzk .. dump him .. i'll bet there still a lot of sugar daddy for u to choose from .
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SadLady111
Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Số Điểm: 263 |
06-06-2006
, 08:48 PM
What the hell? You people will do the same sh4t. Stop pretending.
Last edited by SadLady111; 06-06-2006 at 08:53 PM.. |
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SadLady111
Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Số Điểm: 263 |
06-06-2006
, 09:01 PM
He owns me mucho money ok. He owns me $900 and have not paid me yet. I can give it to him. I don't mind about that amount since I remember back then he paid for meals and holidays stuff. I stay with him for over 3 years ok. I don't cheat on him that is good about me. I don't get anything expensive from him while I have many rich guys after me. Now I don't love him like before. He uses my money and i have to pay every day we meet. I am a girl i can't support him because my salary is limited sh4t. Why aren't people understanding me? How can I support him? He uses my money right now. I hate people say I have a loser bf.
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If_Only
Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2003 Số Điểm: 607 |
06-06-2006
, 09:09 PM
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If you already make up ur mind...Wth are you coming up here and ask us...Since we didn't give u the answer like what you wanted....u got mad?... U r the only one, who can have say in this situation...If there are many rich men are after you....dumb ur loser bf...and get those sugar daddies... If you guys date 3 years already...$900 is nothing....man... |
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SadLady111
Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Số Điểm: 263 |
06-06-2006
, 09:16 PM
Hey I use all of my money on him for a year long ok. Everytime I got my paycheck I gave him half and me half. Plus he borrows my $900. I ask what should or should not. I can't support him for the rest of my life. Fine then I will tell him. I will say break up with him.
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If_Only
Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2003 Số Điểm: 607 |
06-06-2006
, 09:21 PM
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U annoy me so bad....and this will be my last comment for this thread.... Good luck... |
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anj143
Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Số Điểm: 23 |
06-06-2006
, 09:35 PM
Pleaseeeeeeeeee, it's so obvious that you only think about money, there is no love, how did he own u money, when u guys had been lived together for 3yrs?
Just remember, money can not buy love or happiness, u must understand for him that he is in a dificult time rite now, and he need ur support, but since u're a money brain and can not stand by to support the love one when he is really down, what kind of woman are u, shame on u. I remember when my bf moved in wit me, after 3 month living together, he lost his job for 6 months, I'm the only that work to take care of rent, bills, food and etc, but we have no problem, as long as the two people love each other, then everything will be ok. If u think, u can find sumone that have lots of money to provide ur need, then just go ahead, it seemed to u like, NO MONEY, NO HONEY.............wtf/di chet di do tham tien, trong doi toi ghet nhat nhung ke dat dong tien tren moi vat, ke ca tinh yeu.  |
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email
Member Join Date: Jan 2005 Số Điểm: 427 |
06-06-2006
, 09:44 PM
you should dump him. think about it: do you even spend this much money on your parents? why should you spend it on a bum boyfriend? remember, he's just your boyfriend. if you don't have any kid with him than just dump him and move on. you don't want to get too deep with a bum. it's not just about money, it's about self supporting. a girl should not be the one supporting a guy who's capable of working but refuses to. and you did mention he was fired, not layed off. so there's no excuse for him for not working.
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OG
Loyal Member Join Date: Nov 2001 Số Điểm: 1062 |
06-06-2006
, 09:54 PM
this is just another example of why guys should just hump and dump
Chicks tell you they love you , when you pay for everything Once you can't pay, the love is gone |
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SadLady111
Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Số Điểm: 263 |
06-06-2006
, 09:57 PM
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YwoH828
Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2000 Số Điểm: 11 |
06-06-2006
, 10:00 PM
You do sound like a gold digger from what you have said in your post, but I could be wrong because typically there is more to the story. In any case, it doesn't matter what kind of a person you are. You should let your relationship go because I don't see you two living happily in the long run. Personally, I would never ever let my girlfriend support me the way you have been supporting your bf even if I had to flip burgers for a living. He's not doing his job as a man. (I am assumming that your bf is not actively looking for a job, or doing something to better the situation.)
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SadLady111
Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Số Điểm: 263 |
06-06-2006
, 10:03 PM
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SadLady111
Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Số Điểm: 263 |
06-06-2006
, 10:12 PM
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ChuDu
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06-06-2006
, 10:24 PM
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You can do whatever you want to do, but remember that when you're thinking that money is the most important factor in getting married - then - tell the next guy up front so that he have time to evaluate his pocket before signs off a long-term deal with you okie. You're a typical girl who thinks $$$ is all and $$$ is more important than LOVE. love is not asking what the person can do for you but in reverse. Unlucky for any guy who become your bf in the future. When they're out of job, they will be treated like trashes no more no less. I hate those girls like you! |
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ga_khung
Junior Member Join Date: May 2006 Số Điểm: 5 |
06-06-2006
, 10:48 PM
hi girl,
I admire for your courage while admitting your true feeling and intention in a relationship. I am saying this because there are a lot of girls who dare not to admit that they changed their heart because they met someone who is more stable, having better job, and making a lot more money than their current bf. if money and stability are what you are looking in a man for you to commite yourself, leave him; you don't have any obligation with him. however, please do not insult the true love by saying that you ever loved him. good luck |
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SadLady111
Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Số Điểm: 263 |
06-06-2006
, 10:49 PM
I ask you a question don't lie ok. Have you ever support someone for a year whenever you got any paycheck you give them half and you work overtime to buy things/pay their bill monthly or not? Stop pretending to be good people ok. I hate any dudes like that. I don't always like money but my salary is limited. I don't want a loser bf. I don't give my parents that much money. All the money I have to spend on him. Not because of money because of self esteem. I have to face people's thoughts. I have to work/school. I hate myself when I took food/fruit/things from my house to let him eat...because I ran out of money. I felt like I was like a thief. I don't want to live this hard way anymore. Where is the money anyway? If I keep supporting him where is the money? You ask me I take from my mom? sh4t.
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