I have cried for more than a day, and I am so sad now. I want to give him a second chance, but I don't know how I can trust him from now on. I am a pharmacist, and my husband is an engineer. He works only 40 hours per week, but I usually work 60 hours per week. We have been married for more than a year, and I love him so much. I have two jobs: a full-time job at Rite Aid and a part-time at the hospital. I only work at the hospital two nights per week because I want to pay off my student loan and save money to get ready for having a baby in about 4 months. I intend to hold two jobs for a year because I don't want to let my husband home alone. It's not because I don't trust him, but I think my husband does need me to be with him once a while at night. A week ago, my cousin talked to me and she advised me not to work at night in the hospital. I just said to her that I trust my husband. She then told me that she talked to my husband couple times in VF chat room. She also told me that my husband wanted to sleep with her. I didn't believe in what she said to me, but I wanted to to verify her story. I did not come to work last Friday even though I told my husband I work on that day. I, instead, stopped by my cousin's house and saw her conversations with my husband on the chat room. I could not think of him until I told my cousin to ask for his cell phone. I was shocked when he gave her his cell number. For almost a week, I think it's my fault because I am not around when he needs me, but I can't believe he have done this to me. Last night, I confronted and asked him whether he have been faithful to me for these days when I was not at home. He kept insisting he was a faithful husband. I told him that I saw his conversation with my cousin, and he then admitted that he has not been faithful to me. He also admitted that he has slept with a girl whom he met online 3 months ago. He asked for my forgiveness. I still love him, and I am pregnant now.

Think for your kids...don't be sad....try to work out and be patient....

Cheater will always be a cheater.

Very sorry to hear about your situation, myself I been through what you going through right now, and to me if you forgive him this time eventually he will do it again and again.

Good luck sis.

The best way to deal with a cheater is to stay away from them. He will do it again if you give him another chance.

You can forgive him, but you will never forget, regardless what your decision may be...In other word, which is more important your marriage or personal pride that fact that he cheated....

Good luck.

Well, I think It should be a lesson for everyone. We will take it and learn of it.

You should give him a second chance

1/ At least he is honest and admitted to you
2/ You focus on career too much and not spent enough time with your husband/newly wed

You guys should rebuild trusts, family, and time together again. Paying off your student loan first does cost you, a happiness?
Thinking of your unborn child, Don't you want your child to live with his/her step_DAD when your child is born?
There are a lot of questions you need to think of and make your decision.. Good LUCK and best wishes!

To me, you should give him a forgiveness! You love him right? hehehe

TLX

Please be strong. That's really a shock.

:(

Có cái câu nào hay để nói không? Cheater will always be a cheater? ARE you sure? Do all the fish look the same to you when it is in the pond?

TLX

I don't think this is real, and this person tries to make up a story for his/her entertainment. Because people who commits adultery is smart enough to give out his/her identity as phone number and etc. Eventhough, he/she gets confront and believe me they won't admit it until you caught him/her red hand.

Ai đó yêu bạn không phải vì bạn là ai mà vì họ sẽ là ai khi họ đi bên cạnh bạn.Không ai đáng giá bằng những giọt nước mắt của bạn. Và những người đáng giá sẽ không bao giờ làm bạn khóc.Ðừng bao giờ cau mày hay nhăn mặt thậm chí khi bạn đang buồn. Chắc chắn sẽ có ai đó yêu bạn chỉ vì nụ cười của bạn thôi.Với thế giới, bạn chỉ là một cá nhân, nhưng với một ai đó, bạn là cả thế giới.Ðừng phí thời gian cho những ai không sẵn sàng dành thời gian của họ cho bạn.Có lẽ Thượng Ðế muốn chúng ta gặp một vài người sai trước khi gặp đúng người để ta càng biết ơn người đó hơn.Ðừng khóc vì mọi việc đã qua, hãy cười vì mọi việc đang chờ phía trước.Luôn nhớ rằng bạn có hai cánh tay: một để tự giúp đỡ chính mình, một để giúp đỡ những người khác.Ðừng kì vọng quá nhiều. Ðiều tốt đẹp nhất sẽ đến khi bạn ít trông chờ nhất.Hãy nhớ: mọi việc xảy ra đều có nguyên do.

Wait until you give birth and then get rid of him and take half of his money for the child.

An engineer who works only 40 hours a week? Whoa, I want a job like that! Is his company hiring?

A 5 months pregnant woman still works 45-60 hours per week must have a lot of stamina.

A pharmacist who doesn't know that rushing to pay off low interest student loans is not a prudent financial desicion!

Hmmm ... something doesn't add up here.

...NO, he didn't!!!... not until she said she saw their conversation!!

...I'd rather be single than be with a man like him ...regardless of the situations!

60 hours a week, thats what you get, paying off your loans is more important to you then hanging out with your husband

I feel sorry for ur situation but please be strong and stay healthy for ur baby. Thing can be solve later on. With ur husband I think u should give him another chance, everyone makes mistake no one is perfect. U should think for ur kid coz not having a father can be a tough thing for them.

FOBIO has admitted something that YOUNG GUN needs to admit!

FOBIO has admitted that he likes it from behind.

Just read what he said !!

If he carry on again, then I guess you have to divorce even if you have kid by him. At the end of the day us women can't not take men's tolerate in that way. Once we can forgive but can't forget, twice definately can't forget/forgive so the solutuion is to divorce and live on while you still can find another happiness.

Hello sis,

I do acknowledge your situation, and that husband of your is an IDIOT. Why do he even married if he want to eat around??

Anyway, It's the 1st time, and he being honest with you, which mean that he does understand of the mistake he made.
Since you almost give birth to the baby, you might consider to give him another chance. You dont want a kid without a father while he comes to this world. However if that ever happen again in the future you should be straight forward with him.

Make sure you two talk it out, and leave it at that.

i hope you the best sis.
May heaven be with you and your baby

Divorce will not be a wise idea at the moment, I do understand that everyone do need their physical need? sometime it happend because of that nature reason.

It's not always come down to divorce, try to solve the issue 1st,
or if neccessary get a therapist. that might help resolve the issue.

kill the kid and get a divorce .