[QUOTE=ongthien;8639405]"Rồi có ai muốn cưới tui thì lên tiếng nhe , để tui có thời giang đốt mấy cuốn sách này .... "


OT muốn đây nè,anh cưới em về anh không cho em làm cáo gì hết,em phải đễ dành sức phụt dụ anh trên giường là được rồi,đêm 7 ngày 5 vô ra không tính nhe em.

:2kiss1 :2kiss1 :2kiss1 :2kiss1 :2kiss1 :2kiss1 :2kiss1 :2kiss1[/QUOTE]

Ông_bị_thiến rồi còn gì để mà phục vụ.

"Ông_bị_thiến rồi còn gì để mà phục vụ."


:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
Nếu người ta không phục vụ được mình thì mình phục vụ lại cho người ta.hihihihihihihihihihihihi
Em Dep_Qua có cần anh phục vụ không nè?,anh có cái lưỡi dài 6" đó,người đẹp như em anh phục vụ không tính tiền đâu.hihihihihihihhiihihih

[QUOTE=ongthien;8639405]"Rồi có ai muốn cưới tui thì lên tiếng nhe , để tui có thời giang đốt mấy cuốn sách này .... "


OT muốn đây nè,anh cưới em về anh không cho em làm cáo gì hết,em phải đễ dành sức phụt dụ anh trên giường là được rồi,đêm 7 ngày 5 vô ra không tính nhe em.

:2kiss1 :2kiss1 :2kiss1 :2kiss1 :2kiss1 :2kiss1 :2kiss1 :2kiss1[/QUOTE]

Thôi chi chú ... chú kêu cháu bằng em mà cháu nổi da gà hết rồi . Phục dụ trên giường gì? nói cho oai . Nghe đâu vợ chú ngày nào cũng thang thở chú là một ông chồng bất lực haha . Viagra cũng trị không được . Tốn bao nhiêu tiền mua thuốc bổ mà vẩn vô hiệu tại cái đó nó không thể mộc lại được haha once it's gone, it's gonẹ

[QUOTE=Littlefox;8641338]Thôi chi chú ... chú kêu cháu bằng em mà cháu nổi da gà hết rồi . Phục dụ trên giường gì? nói cho oai . Nghe đâu vợ chú ngày nào cũng thang thở chú là một ông chồng bất lực haha . Viagra cũng trị không được . Tốn bao nhiêu tiền mua thuốc bổ mà vẩn vô hiệu tại cái đó nó không thể mộc lại được haha once it's gone, it's gonẹ[/QUOTE]

Little Fox, please go easy on the weinerless old man hehe.

[QUOTE=AnhHai?Qua^n;8638677]I don't like to give out any advice from an online forum but this topic seem interesting to do so. Let me give you my best answer and explain it the best of me. I lived here in the U.S since I was 6 years old but still hold a lots of Vietnamese traditions.

We all live in a modern society where men and women all have the same opportunity to be whoever they want to be. Both have the opportunity to achieved goal(s) that seem to best fit them. Whether the goal could be getting a higher degree, promoted to top level position within the corporate world, etc... Both are independent of each other and both can make decision base on their best interest. We live in a society where older traditional task of men/women can't no longer be tolerable.

The tasks such as cleaning, cooking, babysitting, that women used to do back in the old day can now be done by the men as well. Open and flexible men should have no problem doing these chore so to help out the women in the house. It's called mutual understanding.

However, with so much independent today, it's hard to have both companions have a mutual understanding to upheld all of these tasks w/out bringing up any misunderstanding among each other. Therefore, the divorce rate is so high here in modern society and marriage is no longer a longer term commitment but a game of cat and mouse.

To upheld the long term commitment, both companions must have mutual harmony and respect for each other and willing to share the burden with one another. The men must be able to share the burden with the women and the same for the women. What I see in today modern marriage is that the men demanded the wife to be a servant and thus conflict her self-independent mind. The self-independent mind women on the other end, tend to demand too much from the men and make him look less important in her eye.[/QUOTE]

I disagree, u bozo call yrself educated, there are thing that are meant for women only, that cookin n cleaning bare kid n take care da kid, men have more important thing to do, like fix house n car n cut grass n other hard work that require more physical, if women want equal work, while dont they go out in the hot sun n fix house or plumbing and change oil n shiet like that. this is y the nature of men n women are already hard coded in thier gene, try to change it n u got yrself a problem. if u look at century ago, rarely to none of any divource, men would work hard for money while women just stay home n do house choir n bare kid n discipline them, u develope a happy harmony family. women try to b like men, going gung ho, n independent, so what do u get is chaos. u eggroll dumbazz need to look a the past n do comparison, instead of saying men can do this to help out n bullshiet...

[QUOTE=raidener;8642529]I disagree, u bozo call yrself educated, there are thing that are meant for women only, that cookin n cleaning bare kid n take care da kid, men have more important thing to do, like fix house n car n cut grass n other hard work that require more physical, if women want equal work, while dont they go out in the hot sun n fix house or plumbing and change oil n shiet like that. this is y the nature of men n women are already hard coded in thier gene, try to change it n u got yrself a problem. if u look at century ago, rarely to none of any divource, men would work hard for money while women just stay home n do house choir n bare kid n discipline them, u develope a happy harmony family. women try to b like men, going gung ho, n independent, so what do u get is chaos. u eggroll dumbazz need to look a the past n do comparison, instead of saying men can do this to help out n bullshiet...[/QUOTE]

Educated or not is not the point here. The point is that since today is a modern society, you have to think differently than back in the old day. With the so call equality between women and men these day, you can't force the old way upon them. But again, you're entitle to your own opinion. Please avoid insulting other people base on their own thinking.

"Thôi chi chú ... chú kêu cháu bằng em mà cháu nổi da gà hết rồi . Phục dụ trên giường gì? nói cho oai . Nghe đâu vợ chú ngày nào cũng thang thở chú là một ông chồng bất lực haha . Viagra cũng trị không được . Tốn bao nhiêu tiền mua thuốc bổ mà vẩn vô hiệu tại cái đó nó không thể mộc lại được haha once it's gone, it's gonẹ"


"Little Fox, please go easy on the weinerless old man hehẹ"

2 em yêu của anh có nghe mấy câu nầy chưa vậỷ.

1) lưỡi
2) râu
3)tay
4)cũ

Cái đó đứng hàng thứ tư đó,cái lưỡi của anh dài 6" dư sức anh cho 2 em lên thiên đàn 3 ngày 3 đêm luôn.:2kiss1 :2kiss1 :2kiss1 :2kiss1 :2kiss1 :2kiss1

[QUOTE=AnhHai?Qua^n;8638677]To upheld the long term commitment, both companions must have mutual harmony and respect for each other and willing to share the burden with one another. The men must be able to share the burden with the women and the same for the women.[/QUOTE]

I see a perfect marriage.

:dance :dance :dance :dance

[QUOTE=ThenNnow;8643281]I see a perfect marriage.

:dance :dance :dance :dance[/QUOTE]

easy said than do.

Each individual has their own definition of "share". That definition are built by society, culture, etc... Most of the time, we don't see ourselves, but the other party will point that out, and that's how the ego, trouble worked up there. Good luck with "perfect marriage". There is no such thing caleed "perfect marriage".

[QUOTE=tanman;8643618]easy said than do.

Each individual has their own definition of "share". That definition are built by society, culture, etc... Most of the time, we don't see ourselves, but the other party will point that out, and that's how the ego, trouble worked up there. Good luck with "perfect marriage". There is no such thing caleed "perfect marriage".[/QUOTE]


Tan,

Then quên chử "NẾU" ....

Nếu 2 người hiểu biết nhau như AnhHaiQuan viết thì là "perfect marriage" ....

hello everyone

lâu quá rồi không có vào đây, vừa vô thì gặp hot topic lol
trời ơi mấy nàng đâu hết rồi, để mấy ông nói tùm lum.
mình đồng ý với boston. cái post đó có phải copy từ bên vietsn không, mình có thấy... nhưng mà theo mình nghỉ bên nào cũng có cai hay, bên vn thì marriage easy hơn, wedding cost cheaper... but khi ho qua us not all of them stick with you for long time... divorce cũng phiền lắm. nói chuyện shopping kkaak. đã là phụ nữ ai mà không thích, mấy nàng ở vn cũng thế, mai mốt qua us từ từ ai cũng thích shopping.... mấy ông tóm lại nó gái us thích shopping thích clubbing, ko biết cook ko thích cook phải không.... nói bậy bạ, mình qua us lúc nhỏ, mình không biết clubbing là gì cả, shopping khi cần mới mua, window shop cũng ok...còn cooking thì mình học trong sách, học trong nhà.. theo mình nghĩ try usa girl trước thì hay hơn, không phải ai cũng thế, đừng vì một con sâu mà hư cả nồi canh... nhưng mà quen gần thì tìm hiễu easy hơn.... mình ở iowa, gần nhà mình có mấy ông về vn bảo lãnh, rồi họ bị đá cho nên mình thấy tội cho họ
thôi đừng nó gái vn hay us ai good hơn, cái gì cũng phải từ trái tim , nếu tim họ đen ở đâu cũng thế

the fck? do i need to carve it on a stone tablet? i have repeatedly given yall the road map to happiness. this will be the second to the last time i say this:

for men, happiness in a marriage is when you look at your wife and you wanna tear her clothes off, bend her over the couch and bang the daylight out of her. when men come home they want the sight of a sweet azz, eye-catching azz, the good lord engineering masterpiece of an azz!! goddamnt!! its not what you think, we have no control over our tool, we can choose not to tap it but it takes monk-like discipline. we're happy when our d1ck is happy.

for women: vacations, rare minerals, comparable garments, security and orgasms. when she wakes up and look at you, you better have that nigguh-id-hunt-you-down-and-murder-you-if-you-look-at-my-wife-the-wrong-way-again look. and the most important thing, the quintessential, the one aspect of a man that will make or break a marriage is..your car MUST be a manual transmission hmmmk?

some men go back to VN to get married beccause they get more azz for the buck or lack there-of. its that simple.

[QUOTE=AnhHai?Qua^n;8642579]Educated or not is not the point here. The point is that since today is a modern society, you have to think differently than back in the old day. With the so call equality between women and men these day, you can't force the old way upon them. But again, you're entitle to your own opinion. Please avoid insulting other people base on their own thinking.[/QUOTE]

there is no such thing as equality, God already knows that when he create women n men, this is y western society has a high rate of divorces due to everything being equal. until this society change unlikely, u will have more men going back to VN and marry and that is u too, cuz I already predicted the future, more vn girl being single in the U.S will settle for white guy or neggro or ghetoo niggger.

If us women expect too much and men are difficult to please them, why not going back to vn to find women there?

The problem is us women don't know they expect too much. Some of them might try to get the benefitial expectation of viet culture plus the benefit of us culture. that's double shot. well, they're better off to vietnam if bump head with these "smart azz" women.

Noi' chung la` da`n o^ng na`o khong biet duoc nguoi vo*. hop y' o*? USA thi` ne^n ve^` VN kiem. It is as simple as that.

Nhu* ma` nhu*~ng nguoi dan o^ng khong kiem duoc vo*. o*? USA thi` cu~ng khong ca^`n cha` dap ma^y' co^ o*? USA. Nhu*~ng ng da`n o^ng ma` noi' mo^'c, noi' so^'c thi` qua' la` da`n ba` ddi.

[QUOTE=AnhHai?Qua^n;8638677]I don't like to give out any advice from an online forum but this topic seem interesting to do so. Let me give you my best answer and explain it the best of me. I lived here in the U.S since I was 6 years old but still hold a lots of Vietnamese traditions.

We all live in a modern society where men and women all have the same opportunity to be whoever they want to be. Both have the opportunity to achieved goal(s) that seem to best fit them. Whether the goal could be getting a higher degree, promoted to top level position within the corporate world, etc... Both are independent of each other and both can make decision base on their best interest. We live in a society where older traditional task of men/women can't no longer be tolerable.

The tasks such as cleaning, cooking, babysitting, that women used to do back in the old day can now be done by the men as well. Open and flexible men should have no problem doing these chore so to help out the women in the house. It's called mutual understanding.

However, with so much independent today, it's hard to have both companions have a mutual understanding to upheld all of these tasks w/out bringing up any misunderstanding among each other. Therefore, the divorce rate is so high here in modern society and marriage is no longer a longer term commitment but a game of cat and mouse.

To upheld the long term commitment, both companions must have mutual harmony and respect for each other and willing to share the burden with one another. The men must be able to share the burden with the women and the same for the women. What I see in today modern marriage is that the men demanded the wife to be a servant and thus conflict her self-independent mind. The self-independent mind women on the other end, tend to demand too much from the men and make him look less important in her eye.[/QUOTE]

You are the MODERN MAN !!!
Im happy for whoever marry you!:cheer

[QUOTE=KevinCA;8635971]I agree with you there are pros and cons on both sides; however, you have to understand that the fact is [divorce rate] in this country is too high. According to study/research, it shows more than 50% marriage couple ended up divorce in the 1st five years period, this not including the couples who lived together without marriage license/certificate/contract. If you already know the [fact], then why would you still want to take the [risk]?

[Most] women here don't know how to cook, cleaning, and raising the family. I don't blame at them, but the society that we are living in trained them that way. They love shopping, clubbing, and enyoying life. According to business report from CNBC, it shows that most money spend on shopping are from women. So what is this tell us about women in this country? Most likely, they would spend more time on shopping than for their family and kids.

Be smart to make a wise choice when you make a decision to marry with a woman in US. Again, I didn't say [all] of them are bad. What I am saying is the [chance] being divorce is very high.[/QUOTE]
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To: KevinCA...for whatever u wrote here....personally U' suggest Kevin to surf around cooking forum n you will see how we Viet women playing both roles of wives n moms in this country...n in this society...

To: Boston...I tottally agree w/ you about your point of view of dating and getting to know someone close in us.

To both of you...we Viet women in this country...in this society..aren't that bad!!

U'

[QUOTE=Richard430;8632342]Vì sao đàn ông thích về Việt Nam lấy vợ?
Monday, September 12, 2011 6:43:08 PM


Ðiều gì khiến anh sợ?” Phóng viên Người Việt hỏị
“Sợ tính tình, sợ tính đi shopping và sợ cả suy nghĩ của họ về vai trò làm vợ, làm mẹ,” Thịnh cười cho biết.
Chính vì “nỗi sợ” này mà Thịnh Phạm đã phải nhờ người mai mốt và trở về Việt Nam tìm kiếm “một nửa của mình.”
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Việc cưới hỏi của ông Cường diễn ra khá chóng vánh. Hiện tại, vợ ông cũng đã sang Mỹ hơn một năm, đang chờ đến ngày sanh nở.
Đón xem kỳ 2: Cưới vợ từ Việt Nam: Thành công và tan vỡ
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Liên lạc tác giả: NgocLan@nguoi-viet.com

So what do you think about this article in your own point of view or opinion?

If this is the fact, Ím sure in the future we will have more single women than men in USẠ It's really sad![/QUOTE]

There are many thing wrongs with this thinking !

Nếu nói vì sợ gái VN ở Mỹ , nên phải về VN lấy vơ, như vậy ... chả lẽ suốt đời không sợ gái VN khi sang Mỹ này sẽ một ngày nào đó biến thành gái VN ở Mỹ chăng ?

Ah, phải rồi . Thảo nào tui thấy ở Dallas chỗ tui, mấy cha về VN lấy vợ, chả tên naò cho vợ học lái xe, đi làm, đi đây đi đó 1 mình cả . Lúc nào mấy chả cùng kè kè bên cạnh như là đi coi tù cả .

Nếu có cho đi học tiếng Anh thì buổi trưa cũng kè lên trường, buổi chieu chở đi, buổi sáng chở về .

Duoc vài năm, tên tù "gái VN", chán ngán thằng chồng "việt kiều" như 1 con chim chán ngán lồng son, sẵn sàng bỏ hết mọi thứ , bỏ ngay chính đứa con mình sinh ra, để được tung bay sổ lồng thụ huởng không khí tự do trên đất nước mệnh danh là xứ tự do này . Có gì cản lại họ , gái VN VN trở thành gái VN ... ở Mỹ ? Có lẽ, chỉ 1 cái cản lại đduoc họ mà thôi : thẻ xanh 10 năm .

Cái thứ 2, dó la job .

Oh, nhưng mà đâu có sao . Cái xứ này, con gái làm nail đâu cần băng nail cũng đâu cần học cả tháng . Chỉ việc mở báo VN trong khi chồng đi làm, lục mấy cái số phone tìm thợ nail , phone là ok thôi . Gặp chàng chủ tiệm nail, chỉ cần nghe qua hoàn cảnh là chàng chủ nail có vợ rồi nhưng cũng sáng mắt lên : "Oh, em không cần có bằng nail . Den day lam ở tiem anh, vợ chong anh sẽ bao ăn bao ở bao luôn cấp vụ lo bằng nail cho em"

Chủ nail nhủ thầm : "Mẹ kiếp, thằng nào đã ve VN tậu sang thì chắc chăn là gái tuyện 1 trong cả ngàn, cam doan xinh dep hấp dẫn hơn mấy em đang làm trong tiệm mình . Thêm vào dó, xem giọng là biết ngay đang cần giúp đỡ "

Thế là, Thịnh Phạm hay Tuan Tran hay ông Lâm gì đó, vài năm sau ... lại về VN đi kiếm cô khác .

Ở Mỹ này, gái single mom lại tăng thêm vài cô nữa .

Sao đời tui, gặp toàn single mom không vậy nè trời ?

Mấy cha ve VN lay vợ : Stupid

[QUOTE=map_u2006lbs;8655365]---

To: KevinCA...for whatever u wrote here....personally Ú suggest Kevin to surf around cooking forum n you will see how we Viet women playing both roles of wives n moms in this country...n in this society...

To: Boston...I tottally agree w/ you about your point of view of dating and getting to know someone close in us.

To both of you...we Viet women in this country...in this society..aren't that bad!!

Ú[/QUOTE]


Viet women in US are bad "short term" . But long term, i think they have some values . If they sticked with marriage in the first few years, it will be a good investment . For Viet women in VN, the investment just has too many risks in the long term .

When ím looking for a wife, absolutely not in VN but here in US . For Viet women in VN, just date, that's it ! It would be a foolish idea to marry them .

Btw, they (Viet women in VN) are not faithful as they seem to be . Once we are back to US, they go out with ... other VietKieu !!!! Paintful but it's fact .

Anyway, i feel sorry for that guy in IT, seems to be able to date someone in US, but chose VN instead . A friend of mine, (we are computer engineers working for Ericsson), went back to VN marry a nice & pretty girl in Quy Nhon . She is a decent girl. After 3 years, the day she got the 10 years green card is also the day she left him . I was so surprised. I asked him in VNese:

"Tui ko hiu dc . You dep trai cao rao, trang treo , job ngon lanh . She ly di bo di, bo kiem duoc ng khac hơn u sao ?"

Anh ta buon buon noi :

"She noi la she vinh vien yeu tui va se ko lay nguoi khac hay quen ng khac . Chi la, she muon song 1 minh . Muon duoc di lam, kiem tien rieng, gui ve VN cho gia dinh, va muon di ve VN choi hang nam ma ko bị tui ràng buoc . She cung ko mun di hoc nhu she noi voi tui luc truoc . She chi muon lam nail ma thoi"

I get it . She just want "to live" ! She wants to be a VietKieu when she back to VN . She wants to taste the air of being able to choose man, not let man choose her like in the past .

Oh, i saw quite a number of Viet Woman, ugly here in US, but when come back to US, they suđenly become Miss beauty VietKieu . Hehehe, map thu lu, nhung choi quan short ao 2 day di long nhong quan 1 . O ben VN thi so bị nắng đe da, di ve VN thi giả vờ "nóng quá và em đây .. thik nắng lắm" . Đem đen hi vu truong nhay nhót với may trai VN tròn mat khâm phuc khi mấy "chị" viet kieu sổ tiếng Mỹ với nhau bình luận về trai local . Mấy em nail về VN !!!

Mấy em nail ở US về VN làm Viet women in VN loved to be US like them !

Ah, cung có the, may em nail ve VN nay la nạn nhân cúa mấy chàng bên này ko biêt chừng chứ nhỉ !!!

[QUOTE=zzThiMetzz;8637670]Khi yêu thì nên yêu đừng nên tính toán nhiều quá sẽ không có kết quả tốt![/QUOTE]

Trước khi yêu thì có quyền tính toán & chọn lựa chứ ! Đúng hok ?