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Rollingtears
Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Số Điểm: 2 |
I had a really close friend, We knew each other since we were in kinderganten. We grew up to be two different people, but still remain good friends. She likes the party life. While I like to go out sometimes only.
She grew up to be very attractive, beautiful, and exotic. While I was very plain, I just don't like dressing up too much. I rather focus in school instead. She had many boyfriends in the past, but none of them seems to be serious. As for me, I had finally found the one. He's my first love, I fell so deeply for him because we seem to have so much in common. He always show a lot of love and affection for me. We were together for about a year, until I finally had the chance to introduce him to my close friend. She was happy for me and my boyfriend and I are really happy together. She started hanging out with us more often. She and my boyfriend grew really close to each other, I thought it was normal. It's a good thing that the two closes people in my life are get along so well. She's started to dress more provocative when ever we hang out with my boyfriend. She is a very sexy girl, nice curves, beautiful face. Many guys had fallen for her and ended up broken hearted. She and my boyfriend became really close to each other often leaving me out of the picture. I thounght to my myself, I trust them both because they both are very close to me. They would never hurt me, beside I don't want to sound small hearted. Sometimes I feel really uncomfortable when they gets too close to each other. My heart's starting to hurt, dreading to think the unthinkable. He calls me one day and told me that he's in love with my best friend and she feels the same way too.. I felt so betrayed by the both of them. I felt like my heart has been broken to pieces. How can this worl be so cold and cruel to me? I can't stop this this feeling of hatred and deeply sadness in me. I can't stop crying thinking that they have betrayed me and how happy they will be together just like I was once with him. Life is so cruel. |
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Maxwell
Loyal Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Số Điểm: 1361 |
first of all, you should change the title to "petray by my boyfriend" hear is a catch, at least they are honest and tell you the true. Most people will do behind your back and never tell you. It's good to find out, it's hurt, sad, but it will get better soon.
Second, agree, life is a b'itch. Value yourself. |
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Deathesy02
Senior Member Join Date: May 2009 Số Điểm: 696 |
HAHAHAHAHA how sad hahahahahahaha you have my sympathy hahahahahHAHAHAHAAHAHa very unfortunate WAAAHHAHAHAKAKAKAKA i cant say that with a straight face, sorry.
doesnt matter how long you know someone, if its in them to fck you over, itll happen. if this is only your first time being screwed, im sorry to tell you this, but its going to happen until you die. for what its worth, give it a few months and your bf will call you apologizing. |
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Rollingtears
Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Số Điểm: 2 |
Thanks, Maxwell and Deathesy2
Boyfriend comes and goes, but a very close friend is hard to find. I trusted her, and she uses her provocativeness to seduce him. I cherished her friendship with all my heart hoping she will be my best friend forever. I know it's both of their faults for betraying me, but I felt more anger towards my friend whom I thought would never hurt me. Last edited by Rollingtears; 03-28-2012 at 05:52 AM.. |
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Younggun007
Super Member Join Date: Nov 2004 Số Điểm: 15124 |
You're so naive. You should only let your ugly female friends hang out with you and your bf, not your pretty female friend. There is no such thing as best friend. Your best friend is someone who pays your bills, rent, car payment, etc. Your best friend is yourself.
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KevinCA
Junior Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Số Điểm: 110 |
[QUOTE=Younggun007;9057730]You're so naive. You should only let your ugly female friends hang out with you and your bf, not your pretty female friend. There is no such thing as best friend. Your best friend is someone who pays your bills, rent, car payment, etc. Your best friend is yourself.[/QUOTE]
LoL...That's very true. Finally, I have to agree with you 100% on this. Great thought! |
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Mộng Cô
Member Join Date: Aug 2010 Số Điểm: 219 |
[QUOTE=Rollingtears;9056886]I had a really close friend, We knew each other since we were in kinderganten. We grew up to be two different people, but still remain good friends. She likes the party life. While I like to go out sometimes only.
She grew up to be very attractive, beautiful, and exotic. While I was very plain, I just don't like dressing up too much. I rather focus in school instead. She had many boyfriends in the past, but none of them seems to be serious. As for me, I had finally found the one. He's my first love, I fell so deeply for him because we seem to have so much in common. He always show a lot of love and affection for me. We were together for about a year, until I finally had the chance to introduce him to my close friend. She was happy for me and my boyfriend and I are really happy together. She started hanging out with us more often. She and my boyfriend grew really close to each other, I thought it was normal. It's a good thing that the two closes people in my life are get along so well. She's started to dress more provocative when ever we hang out with my boyfriend. She is a very sexy girl, nice curves, beautiful face. Many guys had fallen for her and ended up broken hearted. She and my boyfriend became really close to each other often leaving me out of the picture. I thounght to my myself, I trust them both because they both are very close to me. They would never hurt me, beside I don't want to sound small hearted. Sometimes I feel really uncomfortable when they gets too close to each other. My heart's starting to hurt, dreading to think the unthinkable. He calls me one day and told me that he's in love with my best friend and she feels the same way too.. I felt so betrayed by the both of them. I felt like my heart has been broken to pieces. How can this worl be so cold and cruel to me? I can't stop this this feeling of hatred and deeply sadness in me. I can't stop crying thinking that they have betrayed me and how happy they will be together just like I was once with him. Life is so cruel.[/QUOTE] neither of them are good to u . they cheated on u careless how u feel. if he's a nice good guy he won't do that doesn't matter how beautiful , pretty or hot ur gf is.. if he's that type of guy sooner or later if it's not ur gf he'll cheat on u with another hot girl anyway. be thankful that u found out now and that they admit it. ur gf is not a good friend either a good friend won''t try to steal their friend bf...so forgot about them both take that a lesson and move on. if she's beautiful why would she steal her friend's bf won't she has a ton of guys out there going after her that she doesn't have time to pay attention to any guy, not to mention that she's try to dress sexy to seduce ur bf.. i'm assuming he's not all that..... |
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Man_VF
Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Số Điểm: 459 |
If she is that beautiful, she can get most men easily, but she choose to betray you big time by getting with your bf.
This person, you don't need, drop her from your life. Last edited by Man_VF; 03-28-2012 at 02:27 PM.. |
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MRMRII
Junior Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Số Điểm: 14 |
Why would she do that? Because despite what you think of her looks and beauty and all you think of her, she is ENVIOUS and Jealous of you and hate what she is inside. So to destroy your happiness, she INTENTIONALLY kill what is most valuable to you, btw, your bf is a dumbarse too because if not for her, it will be for somebody else in the future.
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dulang
Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Số Điểm: 764 |
Hi,
I hate when I am in my 20...confuse, too many trial errors, heart broken, allot of drama. I remember wishing I could skip a few year and jump right into my mid 30 so that I could be skip a few heart broken pain. Now I am in my mid 30 flash back of my pass....I laugh so hard how silly I was and really miss my 20. Especially those boy and girl relationship that I went through. I realized I took life too serious and always rushing for result instead enjoy the present. However, I am glad and thankful that they dumb me for big breast/tall leg/perfect curse instead marriage me and have a misable life with children. Because I got dumb so that I put all my energy to school, work hard to make my dream come true. I want to prove to all my ex, it is his lost for not loving me the way I deserve. I finally got pay for my hard work, I am statisfy with everything I have today. I feel I am a luckiest person in this world. If someone ask me, do I want to change my pass, if I get a chance, especially the parts: low grade, heart broken, dirt poor...etc, . Absolutely NOT, bec if the pass change it will effect my present. So, my point is instead of sad/heart broken, embrave that you get a chance to experience is now vs instead marrying him with kids and he cheat on you with your girl friend. Be glad you find out early then later. Enjoy...the journey of life....:-) Last edited by dulang; 03-29-2012 at 03:36 AM.. |
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HoaiPhi
Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Số Điểm: 59 |
RollingTears
Em dau don*'lam gi--... Em xau hon ban em khong quyen ru? bang- ban . em .. noi chung cai gi cung o bang- .. thi lay gi ma danh- trai day.. Trai tim khoi oc hay la ben trong tam hon trong sang''.. Con trai bay gio thay gai dep la mat mo*-... con trai thoi nay o coi trong.. gia dinh- thanh the hoc thuc*'.. Chi can^- dep quyen ru>? va chiu choi va biet cach cach lam tinh- la ho. vui roi...( su that phu? phang-) thoi dung buon nua mai mot nho la- co ban trai thi dung dat'gap ban gai nha.. o thoi cung mat not.. Con nua? nho tu trang diem cho minh mot ti''.. biet sua? soan/ mot ti va biet lam sao lay long con trai va gia dinh ho. chuc em cuoi tuan vui ve gap nhieu may man |
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1MINUTEMAN
Loyal Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Số Điểm: 1624 |
All you can do now is to move on! "There are more fishes out in the sea".
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anne_tran
Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Số Điểm: 3 |
Hi Sis,
Life can be painful as when we die, and people will come and cry. But who do you like to come to your funeral? I am sure only the one who you know really love and care for you. So now your mission is to find just one man who you like to tell everything to and he will keep it until the last day of your life and forever and ever. That is the one my dear. Let your day be the good one, eventhough life is walked with bad people out there. You said you trusted your friends. I tell you there are no trust in this world, because this is the world of evil. You can only trust God. Last edited by anne_tran; 04-01-2012 at 08:41 PM.. |
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ocstud
Member Join Date: May 2007 Số Điểm: 207 |
Go after his best friend..
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iamamyin408
Junior Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Số Điểm: 18 |
first of all..sorry for your disappointment in man.
Never go back to the man that was so heartless. I'm sure there's someone else is waiting for you now and he is much better then the one that want something new "banana". why don't you XXX him out of your life and move on plus XXX your best friend too. she should know how hurt you'll be if she date your EX but she dont care about your feelings but instead she rather messed with your EX first then dealed with you as her friend later. what a syitty friend.!!!! |
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Mizanna4life
Junior Member Join Date: May 2012 Số Điểm: 10 |
hi rollingtear,
that is the reason i dont have many female friends. i will choose whoever similar like me, not the sexy type. if i was you, i never going to introduce my bf to my bestfriend, that is the dumbest thing that a girl can do, you just give your bf to ur sexy bestfriend, next time, be careful!!!! girls world are quite dangerous |
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HoaMắcCở
Member Join Date: May 2011 Số Điểm: 370 |
the best comeback is to be more beautiful, live happier, and be grateful for all that happened :)
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Wanderlust
Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2003 Số Điểm: 169 |
Life is a tragedy, and your story is painful to read. However, we have to acknowledge that you are fortunate to learn of this betrayal now. Your ex's behavior was reprehensible and unworthy to think of, so let time heal your wounds. Meanwhile, resent the world, but don't resent life because it is too precious.
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august2011
Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2011 Số Điểm: 25 |
Sorry hear about you, normal, happen everyday,
This is lesson for you. (sound like your parents) never never introduc your bf to best friend, even your sister ...... Guy alway want pick best... Are you Want some best? Ask yourself? If you are him what you do? Good luck Find new bf |
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