your husband is not cheap, it is you who dont know how to manage yr husband money. instead of getting an aparment, why not share a guest room or back guest house, still cheaper than apartment saving would be like 200-300 a month. it temporary until u graduate and get a full time job then get a condo or a house. why waste money on apartment when it is not your, secondly, cook everyday, mabey eat on the weekend like 50% off pho, buy large shrimp in pound, like 1lbs, that enough for 2 ppl.

if yr husband like soccer, u should be wearing soccer gear but dont wear panty, let yr saggy boob hang out. and also wear soccer gear all day instead of naked, if u want to be naked then paint yrself with soccer balls on yr boob, or black and white stripe to look like referee..

usually guy that like soccer do not prefer putting perfume, u should leave yr smell like sweat or armpit sweating, and like rough sex, so remmebr to have yr sex outfit on and while doing sex put a soccer ball on yr head and bounce..and still maintain the ball on yr head. he will love u more...gurantee!!!!

Please get yourself out of the "limbo stage" and at least get a stick to see if you are pregnant ASAP. Being pregnant is a huge deal! It doesn't only concern you but your future baby and your husband. Better be safe than sorry. Not taking care of yourself properly when you are pregnant, especially in the early part, can have irreversible consequences on your child, and in turn you and your hubby. You don't want to live with regret or self-blame if something would to happen to your potential future baby because of your carelessness, do you? Once you have that figure out, you will have a somewhat clearer view of your path ahead.

I know you did not want to make this into a debate, but should you sit down and reconsider this relationship with your husband. Like someone said, you guys have no respect for each other. You two sounds like two people who are just shacking up together out of necessity. "You're such a jerk. I hope I win the lottery someday so I can leave your sorry ass behind. You are such a show off, and ignorant human being. I wish I can cheat on you someday and make you watch." This is what you dreaming of saying to your husband. I think you are only married for a little bit more than a year, correct? I know the honeymoon phase in a marriage or relationship wears off, but this is beyond belief. It shows that you are ready to leave this guy if you have the money, and you will cheat on him if the chance presented. It doesn't sound like you even love him anymore and vice versa.

Maybe you guys should have some time apart to rethink your marriage. If you guys still love each other, find a way to kindle whatever that you had before? Anyways, good luck with whatever you decide to do, but please please test to see if you are actually pregnant!

No one knows these two people financial situation. They may be living paycheck to paycheck and trying to put a roof over their heads.

Yeu_Anh, if your husband likes soccer so much, why don't you and your husband go to the park together? Play some real soccer. Get some exercise.

Ken

[QUOTE=Kenster;9078608]Why is everyone encouraging her to divorce her husband and putting words in her mouth? That's not very nice.

LittleFox:[i]"You're such a jerk. I hope I win the lottery someday so I can leave your sorry ass behind. You are such a show off, and ignorant human being. I wish I can cheat on you someday and make you watch." This is what you dreaming of saying to your husband.[/i]'

No one knows these two people financial situation. They may be living paycheck to paycheck and trying to put a roof over their heads.

Ken[/QUOTE]

Sorry, but if you read my post clearly and hers you would know that those are the exact words that she wrote. I am not putting anything in her mouth! And no, I did not encourage her to divorce her husband. I said to rethink her marriage and maybe rekindle her relationship. Thank you very much smarty pants. And no... Don't use the word "everyone" because clearly that is not the case... :fight :fight :fight :fight

[QUOTE=Littlefox;9078619]Sorry, but if you read my post clearly and hers you would know that those are the exact words that she wrote. I am not putting anything in her mouth! And no, I did not encourage her to divorce her husband. I said to rethink her marriage and maybe rekindle her relationship. Thank you very much smarty pants. And no... Don't use the word "everyone" because clearly that is not the case... :fight :fight :fight :fight[/QUOTE]


Sorry, I should say "most". I was just generalizing when I use "everyone"

My bad, you're right. Damn thread gotten too long to read. :D

Ken :kiss:

[QUOTE=Kenster;9078623]Sorry, I should say "most". I was just generalizing when I use "everyone"

My bad, you're right. Damn thread gotten too long to read. :D

Ken :kiss:[/QUOTE]

Yeah... Next time stop generalizing and read before you post. Don't jump into conclusions okay buddy.

":kiss:" ewww take that back before I smack you in the nose.

[QUOTE=Littlefox;9078626]Yeah... Next time stop generalizing and read before you post. Don't jump into conclusions okay buddy.

":kiss:" ewww take that back before I smack you in the nose.[/QUOTE]

Okay, got it. :)

I can't take back that KISS though. What's done is done. :(

Ken :(

[QUOTE=Yeu_Anh;9076537]Ok, you really confused me. Are you just being sarcastic? Who said I bought jumbo shrimps? They are just large shrimps, not jumbo and the only reason I bought it was because it was on sale. Secondly, he was the one who suggested we eat seafood, not me, and what does fat has to do with all of this? If you read my original post, I am currently in the limbo stage, not knowing if I am pregnant or not. I bought way more than those shrimps, shrimps wouldnt be 3 bagful of groceries, but I guess I dont have to explain myself to you do I? I have read your other replies from other threads and you have nothing productive to say.[/QUOTE]

large shrimps are jumbo shrimps you idiot. if you ask me, any shrimps costing 10/lb on sale are beyond jumbo, they're humungous shrimps, shrimps the size of lobsters.

have you ever heard of the error proof pregnancy test AKA EPT?

you went to the grocery store and only brought home 3 bags of groceries? i went to my mailbox and brought back 6 bags of groceries.

if you werent so fat you can catch your own seafood.

[QUOTE=Kenster;9078631]Okay, got it. :)

I can't take back that KISS though. What's done is done. :(

Ken :([/QUOTE]

Well oopss. I cannot put them teeth of yours back in their sockets either kakaka

[QUOTE=Deathesy02;9078633]large shrimps are jumbo shrimps you idiot. if you ask me, any shrimps costing 10/lb on sale are beyond jumbo, they're humungous shrimps, shrimps the size of lobsters.

have you ever heard of the error proof pregnancy test AKA EPT?

you went to the grocery store and only brought home 3 bags of groceries? i went to my mailbox and brought back 6 bags of groceries.

if you werent so fat you can catch your own seafood.[/QUOTE]

I go to the store practically every week you dont think I can tell a difference between a jumbo shrimp and a large sized shrimp? The shrimps I bought were only 5.50/lb on sale. They do not qualify as jumbo shrimp just probably medium/large. I call them large because we usually only eat small/medium sized shrimps. The reason that I am not testing for pregnancy yet is because its too early to show anyways. I am 3 days away from my period, so if its late then, of course I will test. I'm not stupid, thank you very much. And its not about how many bags of groceries I brought home, its about my husband not helping. I want to see you go catch your own seafood.

[QUOTE=Littlefox;9078596]Please get yourself out of the "limbo stage" and at least get a stick to see if you are pregnant ASAP. Being pregnant is a huge deal! It doesn't only concern you but your future baby and your husband. Better be safe than sorry. Not taking care of yourself properly when you are pregnant, especially in the early part, can have irreversible consequences on your child, and in turn you and your hubby. You don't want to live with regret or self-blame if something would to happen to your potential future baby because of your carelessness, do you? Once you have that figure out, you will have a somewhat clearer view of your path ahead.

I know you did not want to make this into a debate, but should you sit down and reconsider this relationship with your husband. Like someone said, you guys have no respect for each other. You two sounds like two people who are just shacking up together out of necessity. "You're such a jerk. I hope I win the lottery someday so I can leave your sorry ass behind. You are such a show off, and ignorant human being. I wish I can cheat on you someday and make you watch." This is what you dreaming of saying to your husband. I think you are only married for a little bit more than a year, correct? I know the honeymoon phase in a marriage or relationship wears off, but this is beyond belief. It shows that you are ready to leave this guy if you have the money, and you will cheat on him if the chance presented. It doesn't sound like you even love him anymore and vice versa.

Maybe you guys should have some time apart to rethink your marriage. If you guys still love each other, find a way to kindle whatever that you had before? Anyways, good luck with whatever you decide to do, but please please test to see if you are actually pregnant![/QUOTE]

I'm too early to test, and my thoughts are only in a moment of anger. I'm not the kind to do that. I know a lot of couples who shout and argue and at the end of the day they are still together. As weird as it sounds some people even consider it "romantic" when they argue. I asked a friend of mine why she and her husband always argue and she said they are used to it, its just the way their relationship is, and it would feel weird if they didnt have a screaming match once in awhile.

Dont get me wrong. I love my husband otherwise I wouldnt do all the things I'm doing now. Yes, I know I can starve him but I just cant do it. I drive him to work every morning just to spend a little more time with him. We have our loving moments too..I'm just upset that he has spent less time with me in order to watch/play the soccer game. Anyways, just because I "think" doesnt mean I'm gonna do. The only time I have those thoughts is when I'm really mad and the devil got inside me.

Yes, your husband is petty base on this post. You should slap the sh$t out of him when he got mad at you for eating whole shrimp instead of half. He ate those freaky shrimps

I cánt stand it .....

I hope a brighter days for you tomorrow, dear.

Come here to vent if you need to .... :kiss :hug

[QUOTE=Yeu_Anh;9075579]Yes I am the one who posted problems about my mom and my molester stepdad please know the difference because I do not consider him my dad. Unfortunately, I do have a lot of dramas ever since the day I was born, but its not my fault. Sorry, but I dont have a lot of spare time on my hands to make up a handful of stories. Dau co ai muon di va.ch lu*ng cho nguoi ta coi, unless they really need the help. If these stories were made up, it would take some one with a very creative mind and a lot of free time on their hands to keep coming up with stories of a sensitive nature. Fake posters wont even bother replying when they run out of ideas, or comeback. If you think my stories are made up, so be it. I just find it really disrespectful when I brought up the courage and reveal personal experiences and some people judge or dont have nice things to say. Why bother reading my thread in the first place even if you spent 5 minutes reading it and concluded/assumed its made up why waste another 2 minutes posting. Isnt that wasting more of your time? Yes my husband used to be a great man, until the soccer game took over his life.[/QUOTE]
i think he is a vileman if you still with him you will become his slave .I think the best way to kich him out of your life or divorce and try to find a new boy friend

You are married a LOSER, like Deathesy02 or raidener

[QUOTE=MaQuyVoTinh;9082234]You are married a LOSER, like Deathesy02 or raidener[/QUOTE]

do you hate me? hahahahaha please dont hate me because that would make me very sad. lolol

[QUOTE=MaQuyVoTinh;9082234]You are married a LOSER, like Deathesy02 or raidener[/QUOTE]


WhYYYYYY I ottaa...........................slllaappp yr yellow azzz with a fish...

Should change your screen name to Divorce_Anh before it's too late. Good luck!

update - Just found out a few days ago that I'm pregnant. Just taking life one day at time now. Thanks for your advices.

I hope my wife reads this so this will make her super happy hahaha.

Yeu_anh,
Just deal with the situation and when you get it under control you will feel great. I don't agree DomDom's suggestions ppl like DomDom have never found a true happiness. whether you like it or not you have to face all sort of problems around you everyday and having a petty husband is just one of those problems. If you run from this guy, you will bump into another one like him. So what you have to do is to get a way to deal with these boyish husband. Keep doing that until you are an expert of this matter. You will be so proud of yourself when you can change the situation. Be positive.

I love littlefox comments. So is Ken's.

It money problem..,..I think
You tell us how much your husband make a month. He take home less than $2000 a month you need understand your house income is low
How your spent each month? We will known how solve problem..